Collarspace.com

Not really actively looking on this site, but feel free to say hi anyway. "Not actively looking" doesn't mean I don't occasionally browse profiles. It just means I'm usually too shy to send messages. I guess my big problem with this site is that people here are really aggressive about their BDSM. Which is awesome, but just not quite my style. I'm more of a, cook dinner together with someone I like and then maybe a few hours later I find myself completely tied up type of BDSM person. I expect to be able to hold my own in a conversation or any type of relationship... well, unless we're in bed. Or near a bed. Or... okay, it's a tricky line. (Oh, and let's get the disclosure nonsense out of the way: I'm trans. I didn't select it as my gender because trans doesn't make sense as a gender category. Genderqueer, non-binary, sure. I'm not really any of those things, but some people are and that's great. Transgender? Not a gender. Just a thing I have/had to deal with. Be okay with it, or not. Your call. :) )
MistressEbony318
 
 Age: 29
 Canada