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About CSM
I'm a 25-years-old down to earth guy and a novice in submission, so very eager to learn. I believe that I can learn from experienced practitioners as well as from rookies like myself, so whatever category you fall into isn't important to me. Your enthusiasm for the game is.
I'm at university and think I could go on studying forever if I didn't have to worry about something as silly as money. However, I will be done in two years from now, so I guess I'll have to turn into a nine to five workslave. Then again, maybe not. It's a different, less subtle kind of slavery I'm after (surprise, surprise!)
Don't know where the existentialist in me fits with the fact that I'm submissive and crave restraint, but it does. I've been submissive for as long as I can remember, and while I've seen a lot of people on both sides of the whip say that they had their desires before they even knew what they were, I've always - from the reaction in my pants - known exactly what they were. Sexual. So I would be the stable boy when the girls were playing princesses or the dog when they were playing house, always knowing the nature of these desires and regrettably also thinking that I was a freak for having them. That went on until I was somewhere in the middle of my teens (the part about believing I was a freak, not the part about playing house with girls, mind you ...) where my view on my submissive side changed. As opposed to earlier, where I hadn't been able to reconcile it with my views on what it meant to be a man, I now started viewing my submissive side as something deeply masculine, and today I still look at it with thoughts of chivalry - I'm back in the mindset of the stable boy working hard for the princess, but this time doing so proudly.
I'm turned on by intelligence, by humour and by real, natural people. Great theatrics in femdom, with dimly lit dungeons and dramatic music isn't for me, and neither is leather and latex. I much prefer just whatever natural setting is surrounding two (or more) natural people, engaging in our - natural or unnatural - kink of dominance and submission.
BDSM to me doesn't have to include sex, actual penetration is not what I'm after, as I have for example become quite interested in trying out no strings housework.
I'm no pain slut, as in I don't enjoy pain in itself, but I do enjoy the humiliation of being subjected to it. What will happen will ultimately and always be up to the Domme of course, but my hard limits are the classics of scat, children and animals, as well as anything to do with men. I know a lot of Dommes enjoy forced bi, but I simply wouldn't be able to do it, no matter how much I wanted to please and make you happy.
I'm here not only looking for a Mistress, but also for friends of any gender or sexuality.
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