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Male Dominant, 55, Plano, Illinois
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Male Dominant, 56, ONTARIO
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About CruelIllusion
I'm an aggressive zaftig femme who is a dominant pansexual polyamorous sadomasochistic mother/student/teacher (quite a mouthful). If you cannot accept all of my facets, then frankly I neither need nor want to know you. I give respect, expect it in return, and have no compunction against blacklisting people who cross my lines in the sand. I am a Gulf Coast native, who has spent the past couple years teaching in my beloved New Orleans, and before that a couple years in Chicago joyously wasting away time post-Katrina. Now I'm home and hoping to reconnect and relax while working on my graduate degree.
Everyone has a light and a dark side, I find, and I am no exception. If you’re looking for all the answers, I do not have them, but I'm searching too. If you’re looking for someone who is happy all the time, I am not, but nor am I always shrouded in darkness. I’m just a woman, glorious and fierce and fond of sarcasm, and as long as you don’t ask more of me than you would give of yourself then we will be just fine. I do not demand that you agree with, or even like me, and ask you to extend me the same courtesy. What you see is what you get.
I am by nature dominant and sadistic, and like partners willing to cede to my wishes during playtime. I'm as interested in the mental connection as the play. Obviously I prefer submissive masochists, but I also like nervous boys in eyeliner and girls who are dreamily distracted, and, oh yes, crying. Though I admittedly have quite a few, lately crying is pretty much my bullet-proof kink.
Bedroom activities aren't always about sex, though I do love it, I'm more interested in exploring limits. I rarely am interested in being on the penetrative end of a good fucking, but am not above bending my partner over the nearest flat surface. Far more so, it's the sensory experience that intrigues me and I revel in inflicting both pain and pleasure.
I'm interested in people with few limits, even less baggage, and an unlimited appetite for adventure--all must be respectful, honest and fat positive. I adhere to RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) philosophy, and expect potential partners to as well-- there's no excuse for being uninformed. And, finally, idiots and bigots need not waste their time.
I am real-time only. I won't harp on you for dropping me a note, but I'm really NOT interested in playing online.
And, finally, I am editing this part to note that I'm in the midst of a personal/professional transition. This means I have very little time to give to the lifestyle, hell, I hardly have time to breathe. While I love playing, I am currently leaving my career to relocate and return to grad school, so do not approach me with assumptions that something will happen between us. If you do, then I'll know you haven't given me the respect of reading this in full, and that is not how you get on my good side. Due to my relocation, do not take offense if messages might go unanswered for a while. It's nothing personal, but honestly I don't often have the time to even open this site, much less answer emails. It must be said, however, that I am much easier to catch on than on CollarMe or Alt. |
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You'll find I rarely stop in here any longer. Graduate school and the general grind of life make my time very precious, therefore no I won't likely stop and chat with you. However, if needs must then you're more likely to get a response from me on than here. Ta, darlings. |
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Yet again I find myself cleaning out my inbox. If you feel that your message deserved a reply, then pay attention:
Do NOT message me asking for me to dominate you via webcam, IM, or email. Give me the respect of reading my profile and actually understanding that last paragraph. I do not play in cyber. Real time only, crumpets.
Now, if you are local, and looking for someone to rough you up and make you cry, then we can talk.
Here's to hoping we all find what we're looking for here,
Cruel
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Allow me to extend my sincerest apologies to those I haven't kept in touch with through here. My life has reached what I hope will be it's pinnacle of chaos, and that has left little time for extraneous pursuits--even ones as pleasurable as these.
Do not take offense if I clean out my message box without responding. It's terribly cluttered in there, and it would take more than a three sentence note to garner my attention and much more than that to actually intrigue me.
Frankly, I have no intentions of taking on new play partners at the moment. Life is simply too busy to enamour myself with pretty new playthings right now, though if you are patient then I'll return to my regularly scheduled cruelty when things are less hectic.
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