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First thing is first. I realize that some people may be confused by the fact that I didn't fill out the interest profile. That's because I feel like trying to figure out who I am from a couple of bits and pieces of data is, at best, going to be completely impossible. If you have any questions about My interests as far as hobbies, music, vanilla activities, kinks, or anything else... Ask Me. I will be happy to share.

Some people may also be put off by the fact that I don't have a picture on My profile. Again, anybody who would like a photo may ask Me for one, though I will only provide one for those who seem genuine about wanting the sorts of things that I can offer to them. I'm not here to display Myself to the world for the sake of stroking My own ego, I am here to meet people who share a common interest in power dynamics and the extremely varied potential of human relationships and sexuality. All of that said...

I am an experienced Dom, having taken active part in the community locally for several years in various places I have lived, and started branching out to start attending national events and learn more from people abroad.

I am looking for friends and people to share knowledge with, and am also open to taking on a submissive. I am, however, currently training a girl, so if you are someone who is not capable of sharing, I am not for you in that capacity. I would still like to talk to everyone I can, however; I feel that others have a lot to offer in terms of different perspectives.

As a Dom, I am both very loving and very cruel. I am giving, but also demanding, and I expect that a woman who has formally submitted herself to Me will be courteous, obedient, and honest about her limitations and desires. Except in the context of humiliation scenes (with those who are excited by that sort of thing), I treat everyone with the same respect that I insist on in return.

I am a very sexual person, but I also enjoy a wide variety of other pursuits. I have a number of hobbies and academic studies, and a very active social life. I am very interested in meeting other people who share these traits, whatever their persuasion.

It is a pleasure to be here, and I look forward to meeting as many of the other members as I can, and learning more, as well as sharing My own knowledge and experiences.

9/24/2008 2:07:10 PM
Wow, lots of mail to read today. It seems that I am meeting new people faster than I can handle. ~chuckles~ It's wonderful to be able to talk to people and learn more about them. Even aside from My interest in finding a submissive or a slave here, I enjoy just talking to people, learning about them, and sharing My own experiences. In addition, the human psyche, in all it's facets, is intensely interesting to Me. I love being invited into people's private thoughts, finding out what makes them tick, what motivates them, what sparks their passions. It's really enriching for Me. Otherwise, the day has been slow. Work was a bust, and broken equipment means likely stormclouds on the horizon. I am looking feverishly for another job... I love My current employers, but they seem to have a knack for bad management that I expect to sink the business within another year or two, and I don't want to be standing at ground zero when that happens. Ah, well. Pity really, they are wonderful people, and more family to me than employers. Of course, that's what comes of working in a family owned business... the atmosphere is so much more friendly and casual than in a corporate environment. It's going to be a damned shame to move on, but nothing I can do. No matter, I need to be making more anyway. Wish Me luck, A/all!
9/23/2008 5:47:08 PM

This has been a rather productive week for Me, and I am very happy that I have found such a wonderful community in which to share My ideas and to learn from others. I am really enjoying My time here on the forums, and also the occasional message to/from Me.

I am also grateful that the situation between the girl I am training and I has blossomed so beautifully. For those of you who are interested in the details, I posted a question on the Ask a Master forum, entitled Really Unusual Situation. Won't get into it here, to much there. But... I am very pleased.

My girl wants a sister, though, so I am actually going to be moving into a mode where I will be searching actively for a submissive or a slave who is accepting of a larger household. I don't know if I will find someone like that here, but here's to trying. ~toasts~

9/19/2008 2:48:43 PM
Well, today is an interesting day. I am back in work, for the first time in a week; we have been closed for renovations, and I am having a bit of trouble getting back into the swing of things. I was rather enjoying My time to Myself, but no matter; the bills need to be paid, so here I remain.

My mother's birthday is today, and as usual, I extended an invitation to take her to dinner, which she accepted. I am grateful that she and I have such a good relationship; after all that we have been through together, it is a surprise.

I have finally managed to put the past six months behind Me, and move back into My old way of life. I made the mistake of falling in love with a vanilla woman, and giving up My nature for the sake of a relationship that wasn't going to work. Nobody's fault, just the way it is, but it kept Me out of the community for a good long time. It's good to be home.
ittybitty7474
 
 Age: 26
 London, United Kingdom