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About Crouchingtiger77
I am I think an interesting gentleman. My friends say they consider me as well educated. n
As coming to this web page, yes I want to find a woman who is submissive with slave tendencies.
I do have a philosophy of what a Dom / submissive relationship is or could be. There is of course no, Ideal, or as stated in a movie once, "No Ideal Plane"
A relationship built on trust, on good communication is essential. It is easy to say such things but this is the fiber which makes up my life.
And, to state, this is not a game, a thing of just play. I believe there are elements of a D's relationship which can enhance one's own perspective on life. The being challenged and encouraged to grow, to experience new things in life in general. Or, to take new risks in ones career or educational pursuits. To see the world in a new way.
Ok, off the ideal plane for a while. A question some could ask is: would I want a 24/7 D's relationship? Well, we have to eat, sleep, work , spend time with family, and other life responsibilities. Also, I do enjoy doing things and would want to share them with another.
I am seeking also for a woman who has more interests in life than watching television. Life has too much to offer and needs to be enjoyed and throttled.
There are more things I would like to write here but I hope that we can through e mails on collarme, or chat exchange thoughts, ideas, and grow to know each other.
There are limits, by that I mean, hard limits. Some are understood, which are not only against the law but wrong on every level and i do not need to state what they are.Le
The following is added as I think it is necessary.
Some women say, that when I speak with them in chat, that I sound 'too polite' to be a Dom. That my words do not convey 'the Dom' or 'the sadistic' side in me.
I would like to give the following metaphor to explain what appears to be a dynamic in opposite tendencies.
If you can, picture the Circle which is used to symbolize 'Ying and Yang' in Eastern culture.
In this circle are the following
A.) Two colors, those being black and white,
B.) Three shapes, those being the large ‘S' which divides the circle in half and the two 'smaller circles' residing on either side of the dividing 'S'.
Then picture the following:
1.) On one side it is all white but for....
2.) The other side is all black but for....
3.) On the white side is a smaller circle inside of the white area and that smaller 'circle' is black in color.
4.) The other side is black of course with a 'smaller circle' which is white in color.
If you like you can think of the black side as being my vanilla side or you can think of the white side being my vanilla side, whichever works for you.
And, therefore you can consider the other , opposing side as being my 'Dom', my 'Sadistic' side. They are in balance, one not controlling the other but coexisting in balance with each other and not to being out of control.
The two small circles show that when for example my 'sadistic' side in operating then my 'calmer self', my polite self is still working to remind my sadistic self of this balance.
This, then allows me to be very polite and cordial with all I speak with, yet, when face to face, after actual submission has occurred, and it has been communicated that my 'sadistic' side will indeed come out to show itself, in many ways.
Those will be,
I. Body language
II. Change in tone of voice and voical attitude.
III. And in how I physically take charge of the woman who decides I am to be her dom.
I hope this explains more of who I am and am not.
I wait your kind reply's
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I have made some changes to my profile to both update my situation
as well as to clarify some points I thought pertinent.
Please, read the latter part of my profile which addresses the
Ying and Yang of my philosophy.
thank you |
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