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About Cotytto
It is amazing how many people demand actions and recognition of a title when they have little to no understanding of interpersonal dynamics or even themselves. While titles and labels are used to to give others an idea of a person's beliefs and wishes; it is presumptuous and exhausting for others to impose rules before even building a relationship. Respect and submission are earned. We all walk in the door as equals and then choose how we interact with others.
Personally, I am a Dominant which prefers a Daddy/girl dynamic. I enjoy all aspects of the lifestyle, including play (hard and soft), cuddling, conversations, spending time one on one, and building a solid relationship. To me, this includes the obvious scene play and the physical release but also the emotional attachment from one on one time outside of play. The enjoyment for me comes from the emotional interaction and caring for my girl. The ultimate goal is to have an attachment created and developed between my partner and myself which is based on both of our needs, emotional and physical.
Philosophies aside, who am I:
Married and a parent. While we do not have a 24/7 household, my wife is also in the lifestyle. Because of this, I understand defining boundaries for spouses and other family members (adult and kids).
Working Professional - This adds understanding for discretion and limiting where marks are placed.
I understand limitations for scheduling because of family life, work, and others issues. Even though life can get in the way, I also believe that having regular time together is also important and efforts to that end need to be made (whether for play or just simple one on one time).
I believe that solid communication is key to a successful relationship and I like to have consistent and open communication with my partner.
Lifestyle for 5+ years.
I have a wide variety of interest and do not require my play partner to submit to all of them. Along with this string of thought, I am open to exploring new types of play if you have a specific interest.
I believe a Dom/Top needs to understand what each toy feels like and I will not use a toy that I have not felt first.
Oh the dilutions of being able to describe yourself without writing a novel. Like everyone else, there is always more.
All pictures on this profile are private and may not be reproduced or
re-posted without specific written permission.
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My girl sent me some new pictures and I thought I would post them for open comment and for your enjoyment.
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