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cotedurhone

Male Switch, 49, Sherman Oaks, California
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Male Dominant, 28, Boston, Massachusetts
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cotedurhone - Female Switch, New York New York | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About cotedurhone

I'm interested in switches and tops, only. (Make sure your identification on here is accurate, else I figure you're spray-shotting everyone female.) I'm not looking for more straight-up bottoms or subs; my plate is full already with 3 regular bottoms whom I cherish for the gift of their emotional openness, consent, trust, and fear.

Here's a forewarning: I'm aggressive, toppy, and bossy... yet also interested in switching and bottoming. I've only found a handful of people who awaken that aspect of me so far; I'm always interested in meeting more... and remember (worth saying again): I'm aggressive... and very picky. Only you know if you can handle that (if you want a lay-there-and-take-it-stoically bottom, then I'm not for you)... so send a nice message if you think we might grok!

In kink, I describe myself as a toppy switch, though the complementary switch or top role in my life remains open. Most of the kinks to the left feature me giving (except begging/humiliation/corsets, which are receiving). My switchiness is between top and bottom (CM doesn't recognize top/bottom, WTF). I do NOT switch along D/s. (The top/bottom vs. dom/sub divide for me is about discreteness in scene, as in no TPE, 24/7, or Taken in Hand.) Therefore, I'm also not looking for a dominant.

Other tidbits:

  • I'm usually playful and giggly in scene-- I refuse to be serious or mysterious. Come on, folks, kink should be fun!

  • I don't do online anything; this is a real profile for a real person who really likes kink.

  • So I'm most interested in you as a person first and then much later about your kinks (as in, if I don't like you, then it matters nothing that you are an exact match for my kinks). Because we're more than our kinks and fetishes, promise; we are whole people!

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