Corpsegrinder

Heres a hint if you want to be taken seriously/ kill off the troll problems, STOP POSTING EXPOSING PICS of yourself,   its not that hard really

The TWUE meaning of BDSM,  a diverse yet unique group of somewhat like/openminded yet closeminded judgemental twits who are living  the unique qualities of hypocrycy,  aka people  get your heads out of your asses  bdsm is different for everyone, if its not your bit cool if it is cool, but who are yout o say  what a real sub or dom is without even knowing the person, thats the problem with websites like this,  people literally take words for the face value of  everything rather than letting  actions and real life  show the truth of people, now dont get me wrong, yes their are liars and fakes  and frauds,  thats for another day, im talking bout all you  doms and subs i see being judgemental bout everyone and everything   and being disrespectful on a general basis because you cant seem to handle  a interweb dating site isnt  as authentic as getting off your asses, and going tot he clubs and partys and no i dont just mean the bdsm  ones, Socializing in this day and age is a bitch, with bar on ever street corner a museum ever 20 blocks  not to mention whatever else is out their.

PS   last eve i made a  friend, Dannydone, After 2 email messages  he   apparently decided to stop being a drama queen and  having a pissy fit, just thought id update those who read this

Those with the highest standards are often those who  have the farthest to fall

"You know what ya want but not what ya need" Princess and the frog good advice

So   dannydone wants    apparently to make this a comedic drama  cause now his insults have evolved to "WHY ARE YOU FAT? YOU FAT ASS PIG". Now lets remember im straight hes gay, and theirs no possibility in hell hed have a chance with me, poor kid  but really. So much anger,  danny i suggest you  visit a therapist, or maybe the local gym and work off some of that anger, cause man its just gonna eat you alive and by the time its done, n o ones gonna want to be your boyfriend,

So, apparently my words have started upsetting people as i just checked my mail and had a message from Dannydone,  gay, 23 yr old  lovely fellow  his message as follows is simplistic  and almost jr high childish "SO WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU ON HERE? SHIT EATER"

everyone please lets have a round of applause for  this  lovely young man, who carries the weight of his anger on the tip of his tongue

I understand according to match.com, 1 in 5 relationships begins with an online dating site and   Collarme not being so different  cept a kink dating site,  i ponder to those  old and young  to remember that before the internet,  People met  by just saying "Hi" and "how are you" or some other oh so lovely  pick-up lines  and the idea of giving your life story   just to strike up a conversation is a lil pathetic

I dont care who you are, where you come from, what youve done or what you dream to do, your educational, financial or marriage status, Words are words, weather online or  on paper and  should never be  fully believed until  you prove it in real life, aka , outside the office/bedroom/living room, off your ass and on the street. 

Dont get me wrong, i understand the many   persecutions one must go through on this site,  but i find it laughably funny how closed minded 95% of the profiles i read are,  says it in the lil black box up top , "the largest bdsm community on the planet" yet  striking up a conversation  requires a paragraph entry to get someone to respond, god forbid you just want to be friends     just amusing