"I'm an agent of chaos. Oh, and you know the thing about chaos? It's fair!" ~ The Dark Knight
Sometimes self reinvention is necessary for one's sanity - as such this profile is a work in progress (and may constantly be one) :p I will not travel for play partners or Dominate online, though if you are willing to travel to me I will happily consider you. Also, I'm Demisexual. If you want something merely casual, kindly keep looking. I'm inherently monogamous. My ultimate goal in the lifestyle is to find a long term committed relationship. Experience has taught me (among many important truisms) this will not happen overnight. Suffice it to say that I believe casual situations both in dating/playing are fine only until either party wishes to enter a committed relationship at which time I expect monogamy or the end of the relationship. This does mean that if you are already in a committed relationship whether it is marriage or another term of commitment (i.e. you have a serious boyfriend/girlfriend, someone else owns/has collared you), I am not interested in being casual with you or polyamorous with you. I am definitely NOT poly. I've been in the lifestyle about 5 years off and on due to some vanilla relationships scattered among some BDSM ones. I very much consider myself a lifestyle Domme rather than a scene Domme. To elaborate, BDSM for me is a one-on-one intense and intimate connection built upon trust and honesty rather than a spectacle to be displayed in groups to follow "protocols". That being said, I am not necessarily against attending events though I prefer the intensity of playing in private with my submissive(s). Here is a list of fetishes I am into: - artistic cutting - auralism - ball gags - begging - being massaged - belt lashing - biting - body worship - blood - bondage - cbt - clowns - collar/lead leash - domestic servitude - erotic photography - foot massage - foot worship (minus licking/sucking, kissing is ok) - gags - hair pulling - handcuffs - high heels - kneeling - orgasm denial - paddling - pain - scratching - sex during menstruation
