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Male Submissive, 35, Panama City, Florida
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Male Dominant, 21, London
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Male Submissive, 62, Nyack, New York
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About Console
I've always believed that hope should last a lifetime when persuing happiness. The moment you give up on your dreams is the day you give up on believing in yourself. To quote Charles Wagner (1905), "Often a man has not the means to do good on a large scale, but that is not a reason for failing to do it at all."
In the world of BDSM, where many struggle to fill that void in their life, it can be discouraging trying to find that "compatible" one. Most will not compromise their needs or wants in searching for that match they believe will rock their world. It's not merely lack of interest out there, we live on a planet of 8 billion, so there would be someone for everybody, but distance is the biggest hurdle in this lifestyle. Your worst match may live right next door and your perfect match 1000 miles away. But if you want something bad enough, you will find a way to connect. Otherwise, hope can last a life time....
I am an experienced male Dominant that has been casually dabbling in BDSM play for many years now. I've never had an interest in anything besides bondage play sessions with consensual submissives. Through my journeys, I have been involved in helping a m/f couple with their interests, as well.
Many times, I had put an effort into helping a submissive explore their own interests, but I always had a policy. If I wasn't in an intimate relationship, then I would not be engaging in actual intercourse during the session. Even in a full out sexually charged type of session, I would touch their body anywhere and everywhere, in many ways, but my genitals stay tucked away.
In my own Dominant agenda, I have hard limits, which include absolutely no interest in heavily beating on a body,(harsh whippings) and never will. It does nothing for me. I am more than capable of drawing emotions from a submissive, but I will not accomodate the masochist. I had a few occasions when someone would tell me that they have no limits. That is when I walk away and don't look back. I do not play with inexperienced newbies that don't know themselves.
I like to make things intense for a submissive, but in ways that they may never anticipate. Viable, safe punishment can come in many forms, without whips. Extreme sensual torment from my sexually sadistic side is my specialty that can be just as effective.
Finding play partners was always tedious but not the most difficult part throughout the years. I've always hoped to find that special bdsm partner for a monogamous bdsm relationship, but that's a hope that can last a lifetime.
I have an abundance of patience when meeting new people. I am not an addict that gets desperate for a quick bdsm fix. I need to talk to your mind, long before I talk to your body.
I am not a "lifestyle" Dominant. I've never had a interest in hanging out with an organized community, nor do I ever have a need to attend their events. BDSM is a part of my personal life and I keep my personal life private and protected.
Right at this moment, as you finish reading, you and I are total strangers. Nothing more than anonymous nicknames on the internet. You are no more entitled to anything about me, than I am to you. We will respect each other equally. |
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I've been from Delta,B.C to Yarmouth, N.S. but I currently reside in central Canada.
I am not much of drinker, never been into drugs (or pot), but I do smoke cigarettes.
I do not dish out pictures and identity details or do video apps until such a time that some form of compatibility has been established.
I am here for BDSM, not applying for a job.
I do not deal with 3rd party communication. If a submissive is not mature enough to safely connect with people on their own. I have no interest.
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