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Here’s two truths that you need to know.

Truth One - Some Men Prefer Sex that is Degrading to girls
For a lot of men, one of the things we look for most in bed is to do something to our girl that degrades her. Something that makes her feel ashamed, objectified, used, or dirty. Something that makes her feel like she’s lost something of herself - like she’s less of a person than she was before. They’ll titfuck you, assfuck you, cum on your face, cum in your pussy, make you swallow their cum, make you say and do degrading things that you’d never otherwise do. They don’t just want to fuck your body, they want to fuck your soul. They want to fuck your identity as a person. They want to leave you in a sticky heap on the floor, with a little piece of your soul gone and nothing left in it’s place but cum. They want to take away a piece of you that you can never get back. To men like this, sex is predatory, and you’re the victim. Letting his hands on you means that he wins and takes his prize, you lose and pay the price.
I know that this is how these men think because I am one.

Truth Two - Some girls Need Men that Degrade Them
Even though these men sound like sexual monsters, the honest truth is that a lot of girls out there need a man exactly like this, even if they don’t realize it or admit it. They need these men because they want to lose themselves to their man. They want him to take her apart piece by piece and own every bit of her. They need a man that desires them deeply enough to claim them that way, to want to put himself permanently into her mind and into her life. They don’t feel real attachment or passion unless they have a man that pushes them, challenges them, consumes them, and rebuilds them. They want to have their dignity and identity broken down and carried off because they want to be bare to him, vulnerable, helpless, free, and protected. They care more about being his than being themselves. They only feel real sexual release when they’re being degraded, being consumed, being changed. For these girls sex and relationships are destructive and regenerating. They’re constantly letting their man tear down their mind and rebuild it in a better way. They love that they’re losing, even if they can’t admit it to others or even themselves.