I'm a straight 37 year old white male in the East Bay Area looking for someone with whom I can share a vanilla / kinky long term relationship with. I am not interested in complicated poly arrangements, just one on one.

As long as you are within an hour drive from the SF Bay Area I'd be interested in talking and hanging out with you socially to see if we have any chemistry. Some fun things I enjoy doing are going to BBQ's, a drive to Santa Cruz, Ice Skating, Bowling, Meet up for a drink or coffee and read, watch a movie, see a comedy show, hang for the day in SF, or just relax and enjoy each other's company.

I am a natural bottom and make a great service top! I have learned over the years that I view my BDSM desires with a very hedonistic point of view. Ideally, you are a Top or Switch who shares my same point of view on BDSM and we share some rapport in that regard. With enough trust and experience with someone I could be very submissive to them if you are a natural Domme with no desire for switching.

If you've been burnt by men online in the past I get how annoying it is for a woman, I've heard lots of the stories of rude comments and the pictures you get. I'm here in the now, looking for something real so please cut me a break on rudeness. If we end up messaging each other and you don't have at least 5 words to say back to me it will probably not work since the only way I can judge your personality is by what I read. I am big on conversations that have depth and are intelligent!

Thanks for reading my profile and hope to chat with you soon :)