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Male Dominant, 64, Scranton, Pennsylvania
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Male Dominant, 34, Nara
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Male Dominant, 36, Long Beach, California
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About Comte
I've been involved in this long enough now to have a pretty good handle on what I like and want. I'm more into the physical side than the mental; I enjoy the hands-on approach to control. I want to hear your indrawn breaths, gasps, whimpers and moans and sobs. I want you blindfolded, trying to guess what will happen next by the noises around you. Tied up before me and accepting of whatever I will do. The sound of you behind a gag. The look in your eyes as you realize I haven’t finished with you yet. The sound of a cane swished above your body, you clenching as you wait for the stroke to fall. The thought of humiliating and degrading you. I want to hear you beg. Controlling you, your reactions and finally your orgasm. Holding you close so you know you are loved and cared for.
I’m looking for someone who shares my hopes and dreams, interests and kinks. Someone who is submissive and knows that they are, but not a doormat, you have opinions and thoughts, dreams and desires and I want to hear them, share them and help you achieve them. Someone I connect with on a vanilla level as I think that bedrock has to be there, for me BDSM is the icing on the cake. It is something I want and need in a relationship but not exclusively.
On a personal level, I tend to the cynical and sarcastic, with a dry sense of humour and am very rarely completely serious. Very hard to offend unless you are ......phobic, .......ist or bigoted in general. No preconceptions, no "things must be done this way". Knowing that respect needs to be earned and that whilst you may be submissive, you’re not my submissive and “kneel bitch” memos will be treated with the contempt they deserves. No expectations that you will like the things I do, although obviously I hope you do ;-), and the list of things I like/don't like aren't things I have to do/will never do, merely a opening for a chat.
In general life I have a wide range of interests as everyone does. Cooking, history, seeing places, castles, parks, coasts etc, entertaining, real fires, lemon meringue pie, films rom-coms to kung-fu, music classical to punk, books fantasy to Calvin & Hobbes, good tattoos, snuggling up with a bottle of wine and watching Frasier, xkcd, The Big Bang Theory, crafting and other stuff.
On the flip side, I also have a vast and varied list of dislikes! I'm human with all our quirks and foibles.
I'm not a big fan of posting and writing so you won't see many of my thoughts on here. You lose inflection and subtlety when writing and especially texting, so the things that are meant to be in a jokey manner usually come across really badly. That includes writing a profile like this, I'm wanting to give you an idea of the person I am but I'm aware that what I've written can be misconstrued, come across too gentle or too harsh, not what you are looking for. There are a lot more things I'm curious about, think about and want to do than I've written about. I much prefer face to face conversations where what we want can be explored a lot better, although dirty texting can be fun!
Those of you who have made it this far and wish to know more, I look forward to hearing from you. I will reply to anything and everything, no subject is closed except possibly your dreams. That is night time dreams, not hopes for the future! If you've eaten too much cheese and find the thought of being chased by a carrot scary, I cannot help and will edge slowly away without making eye contact :-D
Look forward to hearing from you all,
Matt X
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