I have been told that my choice of name may put many off, but to quote a lady i once to spoke to on here, i am more agentleman sadist with manners) This means that i will not push you further than you can go and respect your limits, after all for me, sadism need not be part of any relationship or play, i simply enjoy seeing a woman cry for me so i can take her in my arms afterwards and kiss away her tears.. I have been involved with bdsm since my late teens so I have the experience, but happy to answer any questions or share my experiences if asked. Ultimately looking to settle down with another who wishes the same, but within a Ds and not just a bdsm context, my preference would with a slave who embraces or seeks 247 TPE, but not essential. In addition, If you enjoy the Victorian, 1950s or TiH lifestyle, then get in touch as we will have much in common. But if you just want play, teaching, guidance, advice or an actual cruel and sadistic bastard, then i can happily be and sustain all those as well ) Regards CS PS if you smoke, we are unlikely to be anything but friends unless you intend to change that habit.
12/29/2014 9:29:16 AM
My profile name Completesadist doesn't mean that being sadistic is all I am or that I'll crucify you or push skewers through your breasts etc, unless that is your thing if course! :)
It is more to say that I am willing and able to inflict suffering or pain on all levels and not just the physical.
Mental anguish through humiliation and degradation
Emotional pain through cruelty
And physical suffering via torture
The complete sadist you might say.
But I have been involved in bdsm and D/s for a long time now and happily enjoy many aspects without the need to be sadistic, so if sadism is not your thing or mkes you afraid then have no fear, I can and have been happy in relationships that were sadism free :)
2/20/2012 10:48:32 AM
If new to collarme and especially to bdsm, and find all the terminology intimidating or wonder how pain can ever be pleasurable etc, then you may find this website of use.