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Male Dominant, 42, Leesburg, Florida
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Dominant Couple, 60, Sarasota, Florida
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Male Submissive, 39
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About CommandingVoice
CAUTION: My profile is detailed for a reason; I want you to know who I am and what I'm about and not waste time with endless emails and Q&A. Please take the time to read about me and I promise to take the time to reply to every single person. Thanks!
I know your first question: "Why doesn't he have a face pic?" Because I work in a sensitive job and both need and value my privacy. My privacy allows me to maintain a full life as a Dom while maintaining a job that will take care of everything else. I'll gladly share my pics with you if you ask nicely and communicate with me intelligently. THAT, is the key to any relationship with me: intelligent conversation. Any would-be Dom can bark orders and abuse. That is NOT me.
Ideally, I would love to find a woman who knows that she wants and needs in order to be Dominated by a strong, sensual, sexual, and professional man and who seriously wants and needs a partner who will put HER pleasure and needs at the same level as mine as I train her to be mentally, verbally, sensually and sexually submissive in our private life. I find an intelligent and communicative woman who knows what she wants and who is not afraid to ask for it to be VERY arousing. I love to know that my sub wants me so very much that she's not afriad to tell me just what she wants. That, contrary to the assertions of some uneducated people in the BDSM community, is NOT a switch; that is a man who respects and loves his woman so much that he is not afraid to communicate with her AND to let her communicate to make sure her needs are being met. I don't want a doormat! I want submission that comes from respect, love and training.
Every man wants a woman who will sensually and sexually demonstrate her desire for him. A real Dom understands that he needs to take the time to learn about and listen to his sub in order to truly know her, earn her trust, and then train her. Besides, if you are well trained by me, you know exactly how to please me. Rest assured, if we become a D/s couple then I will take you, use you and in the process satisfy you.
This kind of relationship takes time, trust, and experience to really work and last. I know how to use my commanding voice but I also know how to ask questions that penetrate your mind and soul and how to listen to learn just what you need to be fulfilled. If you desire the mental and verbal domination as much as the physical and sexual domination, we'll get along very well.
I have a comfortable life yet I am not materialistic. If you're all about getting "things" from a man, I'm not the right man for you. I love to show my attention and love through my actions but I'm not going to be your sugar daddy. I am a non-smoker and am not interested in a smoker. I am DDF and expect you to be the same (and to prove it, as will I, if we become intimate). I love the outdoors, travel, fine wine and cooking, the beach, the forest, and the company of a woman who knows the value of a man with a soft touch that can deliver strong physical reinforcement with a firm hand and a tight rope. With planning, no matter what the distance, anything is possible, so for the right woman, distance is not an impediment, although it might seem so initially. If you cannot understand this until we get to know each other better, I am not the right Dom for you. I don't expect you to drop everything and run to me and you should not expect me to do the same for you, no matter how much we connect by email, chat, or phone. Let's be mature and respectful.
My commanding voice is deep, sexy, firm and confident; it comes from almost two decades of experience in the lifestyle, an education, and professionally training others to listen to and follow my commands. It's a voice that will bring trust and comfort and that shows my patience and knowledge and desire to work with you as I train you. I am always respectful to you as my one and only but I am also your trainer and I am not interested in someone who has no sincere interest in learning. Being a brat is fine; being a know-it-all is not.
I know that a real D/s relationship is based on implicit respect between two consensual partners ... respect that gives you the confidence to submit fully to me and to trust me with your training, safety and mental and physical pleasure. I have no race or age issues and I have no desire to jump into any relationship until we both have RT experience as friends and after having verbally explored our mutual desires in D/s. As an aside, I have a special attraction to a woman with some meat on her bones and who knows that there is beauty within as well as on her larger, lovely body. I would be honored and enjoy educating and training a new partner; you would not be my first trainee. If you are experienced, all the better as I don't need to tell you the joys of learning to serve someone new.
Please...communicate clearly and openly; it's the only way we'll learn about each other. Your ability to communicate with me about who you are and what you want will tell me volumes. Show me your ability to follow directions and I'll show you the joy of being trained and commanded by a caring, responsible, safe and sane man who will explore your limits.
Please note: If you can't find the time to write, speak or meet with me on a regular basis so we can get to know each other, don't expect me to take you seriously. My time and schedule is tight at times but I believe that planning and patience are attributes.
I seek a partner who craves to learn about her deep desires and explore them with me. I want someone who enjoys exploring new toys, new experiences and old standbys that are proven to bring sweet pain, pleasure and excitement. Are you the woman who shows initiative in submission and shows physical and emotional gratitude for rewards? I ALWAYS make learning fun, exciting and rewarding. BDSM can be fulfilling and a release if you want it to be and if you allow me to guide you slowly and firmly. The only way to get my prompt response is to take the step of showing me you can and will communicate: Reply to Me. It's so simple yet shows so much.
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Wow...what part of my profile says I'm likely to respond to one sentence inquiries? If you can't engage in an intelligent, written conversation (that means more than a few well written paragraphs on any subject), why should I believe you'll be capable of anything more substantive when we meet? Uh, get the point? BDSM starts and ends with the mind; what we put in between is in the details. Write to me with details or please don't write at all. Oh, pity me the poor conversationalist .... |
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