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coming2life

While I've always felt that I am sub, I'm not quite sure if I am slave. Meaning, while I do all I can to please in the bedroom, I do have my own opinions, needs and wants out of the bedroom. This may conflict with a slave/master relationship. So I guess I am looking for a Dom that will enhance my beliefs rather than put me down. I am very much (well as much as feasibly possible) in control of my vanilla life, but yearn for someone skilled to take over that control in the bedroom. I am not into pain, other than a spanking and maybe some nipple tweaking. I don't like pain and it will shut me down FAST!
One other thing that may clash, I can be somewhat mischievous at times, and I can be a smart ass as well. Not so much in the bedroom as out.
8/21/2013 3:25:35 PM
Don't care what they say, I love 50 Shades of Grey!
4/5/2010 7:01:39 PM
Correction to last post. I was not referring to just Dom's being angry and vengeful. I was referring to most people in general. I was manly stating that because of so many negative posts, I doubt that I would find the Dom for ME. I don't feel you will accomplish anything with your life by being negative all the time. How can you make someone else happy, please them, serve them or anything else if you cannot be happy with yourself? I have seen both subs and Doms on here with negatives posts, you must find something that makes you happy, or you could easily destroy someone else. Think positive, dream big, and sooner or later, it will all pay off.
4/2/2010 9:16:51 PM
Why does most people on here come off as being angry or vengeful? Is there a sane , non-judging person on this site? I realize it's a BDSM site, but seriously, doesn't anyone have happy moments anymore? Reading the journals on this site makes me doubt I will find my Dom.
blueheartedgirl
 
 Age: 26
 London, United Kingdom