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here4Daddy
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| I'm looking for true subs to experience and learn under a master who continues to grow. I'm open to more casual encounters but am also will to do the long term thing with the right one. Please note. By true subs I mean true subs. I'm tired of fakes saying they are one thing, but in reality is something else. Also, I'm straight... so guys don't bother. It won't happen. Couples with a submissive female are welcome so long as the male can respect my limits. If you’re a fake submissive female or new to the lifestyle you should know and read the following. Respect should be shown regardless of your status or interest in a Dom/Domme or Dom couple. This means you should always be polite and respond to people so long as they don't get out of line or say inappropriate things. Second, for those who have thus far pissed me off by saying "You’re not black" or "You don’t look black"... shut your trap. I am mixed... half black and half white. I call myself black because I was raised by 2 black parents. There are few people in America who are 100% anything anymore. Yet they still get to say they are German, Italian, Polish... whatever. You may think you know more then me about who I am and my background... and you may think that my pictures are fakes, but you don’t know squat. And you should learn to keep your mouth shut rather then run it about that which you don’t know. Things you should know about me. I am a professional first and foremost. I have a very visible roll and have to be careful about my actions in public. Thus a sub with a polished side would be nice. I'm well read, educated, and successful. I'm into fine dining with a good wine, hanging out with friends, cars, technology, philosophy, psychology, sports and outdoor activities. As I stated earlier I am interested in a LTR, but those things are always a question up front and need to be grown not rushed. Especially the way these relationships tend to start. As for enjoyed BDSM activities. I am into role playing, rough sex, humiliation, hair pulling, bondage/blindfolds, slapping/spanking, strict obedience training and housework. I am also interested in exploring further collar/leashes (part of the bondage thing), and cages (more curious and at this point is questionable). Hard limits would be blood, water sports and defecation. Every relationship is different so different aspects may or may not come into play. Up front I'm one to chat first and get to know someone before a physical meeting. When a physical meeting is planned I like to make the first one non-expectation. AKA both parties have a chance to walk away if they don't feel comfortable. Just something for your safety and for mine as well. Meeting people online can be a trip. I like to make sure on many levels they are who they are and vice versa. Last but not least I am a Dom who expects submission. If you can't handle that then don't bother. If you can't understand or accept your punishment for bad behavior then don't bother. If you can't handle what it takes to please your Dom don't bother. I mean business and those who don't will be quickly dismissed.
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Now here is a joke.
An email from some self esteem lacking wanna be dom in Springfield OH...(ask for a sn if you're curious) to me...
"hope this helps. you got to be the truest punk girl on here please read your profile twice. if you ever do a day in a maximum risk penitentiary in your state you won't be making a dominate profile on any site even a gay one take care true Bitch Omg"
This guy thinks dominance is big muscles and flashing a gun in his profile pic. And he thinks mailing me with some "helpful guidance" is something threatening or scary! Seriously??? Get a life and give up the act. Worry about yourself and your shortcomings. True dominance is from the mind. Any muscle bound idiot can inflict pain or intimidate. It takes more than that to command control. Just because you've done time doesn't mean your dominate. It just means you were dumb... and probably someone's little girl. Ps... straight dom males usually don't browse other straight dom males profiles and try to analyze them. So who are you calling a girl?
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So last night I'm out at the bar having a few adult beverages with a couple of friends when this girl decides she wants to get a little fresh and play fight. After she looses the fake boxing match she gets more aggressive and ends up getting pined to the pool table. When released she slaps me square on the cheek... Bad move but were in public and these are vanilla people. I turn to walk away and a slap on the back of the head. Now I'm hot... But show restraint in the vanilla. Her friend concerned seeing the look on my face quickly escorts the upstart outside. I'm later informed that she's a dominatrix and that I should never pin her down without her permission. My simple response to her was that I am no sissy cunt bitch. And if she thinks she can tell me what or get away with slapping me again she will have major problems coming her way. So she decides to do a quick ball tap and run away like a little sub cunt. Take aways from this situation.
1. Never assume in a vanilla world that everyone will be tolerant of you behavior. Not all women and or men are submissive so show some respect until you know where they stand.
2. If you come across another Dom/Domme in public and you don't wan to look like a bitch, don't get fresh. Cause as dominant as one may think they are there will always be others out there that may be able to put you in your place in an embarrassing manner. Aka I'm physically bigger so when you realize I mean business back off or you get put down.
3. I will show restraint when in public. Though as the saying goes fool me once shame on me... Next time if she decides to persist in trying to make me her little sissy boy she'll instead find herself in a compromising and embarrassing position.
4. Never mistake kindness and respect as weakness. |
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