ColoMtns9

A good leader takes a little more than his share of the blame,

a little less than his share of the credit.

The woman who most appeals to me is strong, and surrenders that strength when she feels safe and comfortable in doing so. Her complete trust in me constitutes much of the intensity I feel in leading her. If she craves humiliation, that is her business, but I would much rather be able to respect her for her strength and resiliency.
I am in a very vanilla marriage, and I respect your position if that's a no-go condition for you. A woman who is married as well, and would just as soon start as friends, is welcome to contact me (as are those who don't fit that deion). There definitely needs to be an intellectual connection for things to evolve from there. I will provide a picture once we establish contact.
I should also state here that I am an autodidact. If that offends or disturbs you then we won't get along. A sense of humor is also highly valued, and especially useful in properly evaluating the previous sentence.
A dominant inclination absolutely does not absolve a man of showing courtesy, respect, and good manners. And if you crave humiliation, you'll need to find one who is so inclined. I'm not.