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| I am a 30 year old professional male. I am very happy with who I am and proud of what I have accomplished so far with my life. I am to the point in my life where I am ready to find someone that I can connect with and form a long lasting relationship. I know this doesn't happen over night and there needs to be a friendship first. One of the things I really want in a relationship is the bdsm lifestyle. I can not be 24/7 because I have a life and responsibilities. I want someone I can connect with on in a "vanilla" level too. I have a lot to offer, sense of humor, intelligence, spontaneity, creativity and I am a good, caring person and I want someone that can offer the same personality traits. I would classify myself as a switch, I think I am a little more submissive though. I have been in relationships on both sides of the spectrum, I enjoy both roles. I do think I am better suited as a submissive though because I love to take care of people I care about. I find a woman who knows what she wants and is confident to be a very sexy thing. I don't do well with people requesting to chat with me, then asking for my IM just to boss me around on cam without getting to know me. I don't mind "proving" I am for real. I know women on here have a lot of trouble with dumb asses, but please have a little respect for me too. You wouldn't go up to someone you just met on the street and tell them to pull their pants down and grab their ankles would you? So it is probably not the most courteous opening liner for me to hear online. Don't get me wrong, I am open to doing that, just let me get to know you and buy you dinner first :) I mentioned earlier I think my "ideal" match would be someone switch or dominant, but if the right submissive person came along that would work also. I am all about personality, I love a person who can make me laugh and feel good. So if you are looking for an intelligent, respectful, and 'fun to be around man' with a hidden kinky side let me know. I would love to hear from you. I also have plenty of pictures, I just do not have them posted right now due to my professional life. If you are interested just ask for a photo and I will gladly send you one.
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Here is a follow up to my earlier post, I found the actual transcription...I hope I do not go through anything else like this, talking to this person was a waste of my time.
This is a conversation that occured after a Domme female had told me to meet her Dom friend in order to meet her:
Me:
?why can't you meet me with your dom friend?
you and him can meet me
no big deal
or show me on cam that you are a girl
then i will do it
then i would jump through hoops for you?
Her (him?):
listen do you like paying taxes? i bet not but you do because its the rules well i have rules and that is how i am and i know not everyone likes the rules and not everone will do it but i am and i will and i wont bend them i am sorry you know as i said i have no problems not getting you to be my slave lol you think i am going to set here and beg you or try and change my rules to get you. if you want to meet me you will have to meet the master first and if he approves of you i will meet you those are the rules and i will not break them
Me:
?i will, if you simply show me you are a girl right now on your cam
thats the minimum requirement i need
just prove to me you are not a guy?
?Her?:
lol umm last time i looked i believe i told you i dont bend or break rules, if you dont like my rules thats fine i am not begging or asking you to break yours sorry, as i said i hope you do find some one that will work for you
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For the most part my experience on this site has been decent. I have, however, encountered problems with "female" Dominants being fake. Maybe they aren't fake, but they are throwing up a lot of red flags. I had recently talked to one and I seemed to connect on a friendship level, we had things in common, we were very close as far as distance and it seemed very promising. Then we started talking about what we looked for in D/s relationship. Shortly afterwards she wanted me to prove that I am "real." After 2 hours of chat I was instructed to contact her friend who was a male dominant to be submissive to him in real time. Ok, I have no problem with this, if we had established some form of trust. I had not even heard this person talk on the phone, nor seen that she is in fact who she says she is. The D/s relationship is based on a large amount of trust, and for me to be called a "game player" because I will not meet some man after a few hours in contact with someone over the computer makes me fake, I guess I am. I am completely left at a loss for words because of this. I feel that my time was wasted and this bothers me. Anyway, I hope to keep searching and find someone that I can connect with that is actually close in distance to me. |
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