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About CMH40
What can be said in a profile? So I will use this as a place for my "mental running with scissors" I tend to prefer to meet people face to face and communicate, if you want to know me drop a note.
D/s for me is not merely rough sex and weak wills... It is an exchange of two complements that leaves her spirit raw, deliriously sore , & sated. Like two sides of a fine coin -no role is greater than or more important than the other. Each side is responsible unto itself first- Only when each half embraces this responsibility and inherently knows its own value can it contribute to the whole. There is no one philosophy. There are no rules carved in stone. There is only the exchange of will and need.
Not A Mind Reader Even Though Some Think I Am. If You Want To Know, Ask Me, If You Want Me To Know, Tell Me. Deeds, Not Words, Are The Telling. There Are Six Things That Must Be Ever-Present In Any Relationship, Be It Intimate Or Platonic: Trust, Communication, Honor, Integrity, Respect & Responsibility.
For Me, dominating women is about making them more beautiful, self-secure, and self-aware, not less. I respect her feelings , but I want her to know I am in control ...I want to enjoy her submissive side in a way that is pleasing to both of us ... but keeping the control on my side .. as it should be! I have found being a Dom is a case of if I have to tell people i am. Then really am not.
All too often you find people ridiculing others in their words for supposed short comings. If you don't like something, move on; if someone rejects you, move on; if someone is mean, move on; if you don't like what someone says, move on. Life is too short for big egos and small minds, enjoy your life as you see fit. there is no formula for living the life you secretly dream about, be open to it and life will reveal itself to you
Certain souls seem hard because they are capable of strong feelings, and they sometimes go to rather extreme lengths; their apparent unconcern and cruelty are but ways, known only to themselves, of feeling more strongly than others. ~ The Marquis de Sade |
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Women #1 says to Women #2, "I got this fantasy of sexual Submission want to dominate me?"
Women #2 says to Women #1. "Well, I can not help you there I am not a top"
Women #1, "You miss understand, I'm submissive in the scenes I do not want to work or take any responsibility, so to dominate me you'll just need to do everything i want. usually before I know I want it"
Women #2, "So, when you say Submissive you mean I am lazy and demanding"
Women #1, "yeeesssssss and I deserve to be spanked for it"
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Male Dominant, 39, Columbus, Ohio
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Male Dominant, 60, Columbus, Ohio
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Male Dominant, 41, Columbus, Ohio
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Male Switch, 44, Columbus area, Ohio
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Male Dominant, 50, Glasgow, Kentucky
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Male Submissive, 50, Columbus, Ohio
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Male Dominant, 53, Portland, Oregon
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Female Submissive, 27
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Male Submissive, 27, Columbus, Ohio
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Female Submissive, 26
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Male Dominant, 48, Columbus, Ohio
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Male Switch, 39
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