I have been nibbling (and nibbled) around the edges of D/s for quite a few years. i have met some great P/people. Alas i am unable to do so on a more permanent basis at least at this time. For personal and professional reasons, which I am happy to discuss with you if you are interested. The primiary one being that I am married at this time. That may or may not chage in the future, to be totally transparent. I would love to explore more, see my limits, and yours, and be a pleasure to Others.. I find a great deal of pleasure in serving others, and giving them what They want..

In the vanilla world, i am simply your average white male professional type, but i long for more in my life, at least for one corner of it. I totally understand that most folks here are more involved on a 24/7 basis, and hope that you will allow me to explore your worlds, as long as I am polite, respectful, and don't seem to be trolling for attention.

I am searching for a partner, someone to explore their passions as well as mine. Someone who, perhaps at a more mature stage in life, feels like they want to explore themselves more, who wants to make sure they have left behind no regrets of passions not acted upon, roads not taken. I know I am not for everyone and I am fully aware of people not wanting to be anything but number one. I can see that happening at some time in the future.

I am not really looking for online romance, but I am perfectly happy with learning Her needs initially. Meeting in person is certainly the ideal goal, and what i want, but only on her terms when ready.

I will be happy to send you pictures at such time as it's appropriate, please understand my need for privacy until I get to know You, and you to know me better.

I am in very good physical (and I think mental) health, a non-smoker. I enjoy intellectual discussions about many topics.

And if anyone has the secret to getting rid of the black background on these posts, please let me know !