ClayTumold


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	About ClayTumold Posted Juune, 2011 Untill recently i had pledged my allegience and had been claimed by an on-line Lady who exercised her control over me in varying degrees for about a year and a half. However, after some fundamental changes to her life, Her presence in the on-line BSDM community dwindled and, after not hearing directly from Her for more than a year, i have reluctanly concluded that She has moved on - away from me - and i have been released to be claimed as a pet by a new owner. Posted Apr. 2009 my interests are not well described by checking boxes on a list although, as you can see, i did that because i'm too obedient not to. My primary interest is in submiting to the control of a beautiful younger woman who will make all decsisions for me in my life with her and allow me to be her pet, to attend Her and please Her at her whim, both intimately and domestically, like any other beloved pet whom she would cherish and protect but expect obedience and service. After submitting to such a Mistress, it becomes much less important that i checked, for example, Sissification but Not Cross Dressing or Collar and Lead but not Bondage. Just because i may have checked feminazation doesn't mean that i wouldn't embrace cuckoldry with the same fervor, if that was the way to please my Mistress What would become important is what my Mistress had trained me to want so that i might become eager to do something for the right Mistress that i might previously have thought that i'd never do. i am a middle aged white male seeking a dominent woman to take charge of all facets of our relationship. i would like to surrender decision making to Her good judgement so that She may train me to recognize and satisfy Her whims. My goal is the contentment of knowing that my only duty is to make Her happy and the satisfaction of knowning that i have done so, in other words, the "subspace" which Elise Sutton postulates in her writings about female dominence. Alas, i do have some real life commitments such as a job and an elderly mother who needs daily care so i am not available for full time service in the immediate future. And, in truth, i do not know that i want, or could sustain, the relationship i envision on a 24/7 basis. my HARD LIMITS would include severe or sustained pain, severe or sustained stress on major joints, permanant marks or changes, blood and 'outing' in home area or on-line. Thank You for taking the time to read my profile.

The following are not my words.
I found the essay/poem year?s ago on the profile of a Mistress somewhere which, as you will see if you read all of it, she borrowed from an anonymous source. I post it here because it so well describes who I seek. And, if the author ever sees this, please contact me, ma'am.

What Is A Mistress?

I am a dominant woman of 27 years. I am just that.

I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part.

Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser.

I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body.
I am not, nor would I want to be dominant with all men.
Yet to you, I am Mistress.
I am your Mistress only after earning your trust and I embrace your submissiveness.
I have looked into your heart and mind and clearly see your desires and passions.
You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions.
You tell me of the needs of your heart and body.
You have given me total access to your soul, and I accept the responsibility and honour.
You are a man.
You are not weak or inferior because of it.
You are a treasure to be cherished.
We are not equal.
I have the strength of body and mind and the instinctive need to protect, possess, defend and provide for you.
You are a man and instinctively strong of will and heart.
Your belief in me gives me courage and direction.
Your strength disperses my doubt.
Your needs and desires encourage and give purpose to my efforts.
We are not equal. We are parts of a whole.
We complement each other and make each other complete.
My desire to dominate you is instinctive.
It is not to degrade you nor is it degrading to you
because you are secure in being totally masculine.
We each recognize and accept our worth,
and our need for someone to trust and fulfil our needs.
You are sure, strong and proud in your manhood.
You do not submit as acceptance of inferiority, but from strength and passion.
You expect a Mistress to stand strong and be a woman.
You desire and flourish in the strength and control of a Mistress.
In return you present control of your body, unqualified trust and honesty, and the faithfulness of your heart.
You submit because I have earned your trust,
because I have opened my heart and soul to you,
because I have listened to your words with my ears and heart and have learned to anticipate your needs and emotions. And because I have proven worthy in your eyes, you have given me the only true treasure of life;
you have given me dominance over you.
What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the most beautiful gift a man
could give a woman.
You have given me complete and unshakable assurance of your commitment to me.
Your submissiveness is a magnificent gift and shared responsibility.
I accept this from you with humility and joy.
I understand the rarity and purity of this gift.
I recognize it is your body and soul,
your heart and mind.
I dominate you only because you have allowed it.
I dominate only because you have allowed me to and when I see your body kneel before me, in my mind and heart you are raised above all other men and all the treasures of the earth.
What you give freely cannot in reality be bought and if it could, it would never mean the same.

With special thank to the unknown writer from who I borrowed this great text. It tells exactly the way I feel

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