Where does my Masochistic side begin ... scratch me and you'll find it.
I'm questioning myself and the role that I play in the BDSM world. I know that to find a match in the vanilla world is hard enough, but here it is compounded. I have very definate and dominant traits that are deeply ingrained, but there is the counterpoint with a need to feel the Warm, Loving, Maternal Strength of a Confident Woman that knows Her Dominant side. This has been revealed to me through a lifetime of contact with Women as relatives, [Mum,Aunties and Nan] Teachers and Members of the community. Visualize a silken glove over a strong, confident hand and that hand can lead me anywhere. A smooth, musical voice beckons where a harsh, sharp tongue drives one away. Encourage the boy and he will do better by wanting to please his Lady. Put him down and he becomes resentful, sullen and withdrawn. I have a need to please and thrive on praise and encouragement... and I will do whatever I can to see You Smile. I will be Your Knight for You, My Lady ... although there is also a need for regular reminders ... OTK please... :>)

Looking for contacts and prehaps a relationship with someone who really loves Tasmania. Cold? That's BS ... Canberra is worse and it gets bloody hot there also. Coastal NW Tasmania is great... I just wish my trees would grow faster so I could wander around in my birthday suit when it gets warm.

Sorry, I cannot find anything sexually attractive in a smoker nor do I appreciate the stale breath of a coffee drinker. [at least that can be improved on]
Being tall, [185cm] and slim[80kg] and quite fit, I also appreciate similar qualities in a Woman. Spending time in the kitchen together is something that I really like. Yes, I can cook and will happily cook for you if I'm not out in the garden til dark. [love rainy afternoons]

Sitting on the beach at sunset is always an attraction and I'll drop whatever I'm doing if there is a good sunset building up. [camera in hand] A casual stroll along the beach is something that I find very relaxing. I 'should' do that daily, but I don't... no excuse cause it's just across the road.

I'm not a big bushwalking fanatic, butt day walks are always nice with the right person. [also with camera in hand] {playtime outdoors is something I would like to explore.}

Snorkling is something that I'm just starting out with although having grown up a long way from the ocean, I find open water rather threatening. I'd rather be in a boat... :>)
Fishing for me is just an excuse to get away from town and read a book on the bank of a river or take photos, so I really don't care if I even wet the line.

I ride my motorcycle daily as transport so I won't be badgering you to go for rides every weekend. I do really like riding though as it is my 'Freedom Machine' and I haven't had a car in over 12 yrs. [yes, I get wet and cold often]
I don't fit the stereotypical biker as I don't smoke, not a heavy drinker,{blotto isn't enjoyable in any way} [I like a good Scotch or Irish whiskey though] I haven't any tatts or piercings and I shave daily ...head also, cause my hair was getting thin on top and I'm not into hiding it with a comb over, wig or hair 'thatching'. I'm clean other than when I get sweaty and grubby in the garden. I shower twice a day [min] without any special need and love to slip in bed naked with clean fresh sheets with the moonlight reflected on the water. . . Bliss with a Ms ... which I miss.

I 've scribbled on my kitchen wall, "Assumptions, Demands, Expectations = Relationship Killers"[one or more are always present when a relationship crumbles](at least in my experience)

Best Swishes ... c