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Hetero Male Dominant, 40,  Torino, Italia
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Some nights are made for torture, or reflection, or the savouring of loneliness


I identify as a predatorial corrupter of decency.

To me this is all about artful seduction that leads to total depravity, a gratuitous indulging in free nastiness.

I want to be the instigator of your miseducation, the evil angel who leads you straight into temptation. Playful prim and proper ladies, please step forward to be inspected.

I judge only those who judge. I dont care about normalising kink. Why would anyone want to kill the thrill of the illicit?

My Dominance is not a weekend hobby. It is a natural need. Whips and chains are fun but theatrics are very far from what I need. I see genuine connection and resonance with a woman who needs a strong man to put her in her place and shows her where she belongs, her potential, her full submission.












Last Online:


 Dominant Male



 Willing to Relocate

 6' 1"

 69 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

Friends Only

Online Romance

 Lives For:

 Fine Dining


 Canes and Crops

 Hair Pulling

 Humiliation (Expert)


 Public Play

 Spanking (Expert)


 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)


 Art Galleries

 Flea Markets




 Anal Play (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)

 Breast Play



 Local BDSM Community


 Orgasm Denial

 Wax play


 Old Guard


 Coffee Shops


 Body Worship


 Collars (Expert)

 Corner Time

 Electrical Play

 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 Role Playing

 Sensory Deprivation

 Libertarian Politics




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Journal Entries:
7/9/2017 10:33:13 PM
Until some years ago the word 'surrender' used to be used more often in relation to submission. It seems to be be replaced with what? Rights and expectations?

7/4/2017 6:58:48 AM

The Black Dress

There's no night after sunset,
no absence of light
or of voices, orders, inspirations
that draw you to my worship.

There's darkness only
in the blackness of your elegant dress,
oozing desire out of every line, curve, shadow,
absolute in its grip on your hips
and arse. That cock-starved arse
is due for another spanking...
isn't that what you begged for
on the phone?

But your worship has been erratic,
your weak words have been rejected.

You need to be punished,
deprived of your usual fare.

Your fuckholes, deformed by emptiness,
by desire....How much do you think
I'd get if I whore you out tonight
or tomorrow as your husband
drives to work, a couple of lads
will be driving their hard cocks
deep into your wet cunt, you filthy fucktoy.

Then, and only then, will your dress
be ready for wearing again.

Then, and only then will my bare hand
consider spanking your married arse
till you're screaming that I'm your All,
your Everything. You, my faithful toy.

10/17/2016 11:51:26 PM
Is there a more sexually arousing concept than the idea of moral corruption through seduction? The promise and expectation that lies in that infinite chain of corruption is so exquisitely tempting every time I get a whiff of it...

1/7/2014 3:03:08 AM

With some of my subs I like using the word 'cheap' and it creates mixed reactions. Some love it, others find it the worst of offensive abuse.


English is not my mother tongue so I might be missing some nuances, but to me cheap sounds nasty whilst worthless, as a possible synonym, is meaningless.

1/7/2014 2:46:02 AM

Hope you all had a good naughty start to 2014.



8/11/2013 6:06:50 AM


The key word for me here is transgression. In simple populist terms, breaking the law is always fun or there's not tastier fruit than the forbidden fruit. Most taboos are there to be challenged.

Secondly, elegance trumps trashy like intelligence and eloquence trump superficiality.


I appreciate a woman who is looking to pushed and used beyond what she thought were her limits. A woman who is not opposed to having her hair pulled or her face slapped if it is called for.My main turn ons are power exchange, discipline play, spanking, public groping and ass play in general.

5/8/2013 2:37:57 AM

With some of my subs I like using the word 'cheap' and it creates mixed reactions. Some love it, others find it the worst of offensive abuse.

 English is not my mother tongue so I might be missing some nuances, but to me cheap sounds nasty whilst worthless, as a possible synonym, is meaningless.


4/22/2013 3:17:52 AM

Elegance trumps trashy like intelligence trumps superficiality.

8/19/2012 5:54:09 AM

I have lately been hoping to find an elegant cuckold couple who are willing to serve me on and off. I don't want 24/7. When you are in service I expect the husband to be our taxi and butler. She needs to be able to look ravishing in black cocktail dress, someone with whom I can have a decent dinner with at a quality venue while the husband waits for us outside in the cold or rain. Needless to say she'll be expected to please me and take it deep, rough and hard when and where I feel like in front of the husband's eye who will then clean up after us. I expect both parts of the couple to be totally obedient and open to serious play. Anyone there?

8/19/2012 5:40:06 AM

Isn't the morality police's presence a bit of a paradox on here?


 Behaving causes blindness.


Leadership is a matter of having people look at you and gain confidence, seeing how you react. If you're in control, they're in control.



New description of self. Slave-auctioneer and part-time pilot with SexAirlines...we fly international... ;) Call us for Nasty Tours. Unnecessary clothing will be confiscated.




Geez! Am I the only one who thinks dominating an older married subbie is a major thrill? Aren't we supposed to be enjoying the little transgressions in life...and that for me includes risk and the thrill of having a dirty secret...? Whoever agrees with me please drop me a message because I'm starting to think that this place is just full of prudes and morality police...



The joys of decadence are irresistible. Nasty, rough sex is poetry in play :) Sometimes I wish I was in Venice some 500 years ago, involved in all the underground orgies and brothels of the nobles. My main turn ons are humiliation, micromanaging a subs life, hard spanking, ass play, clothed sex and some roleplay. I also cam.

I like naughty mature women but not opposed to younger objects of pleasure :)

A particular weakness for women who squat, legs open and beg to be fed cock and fresh warm cum.


My job demands constant travel mostly to the UK (London, Manchester, Wales) and the US (NYC, Berkeley) so real meets there are always possible.


I'm fan of Tinto Brass. So much eroticism!


9/29/2010 8:45:00 AM
Your fantasies will always bring you back to Me...

9/29/2010 8:42:35 AM
Currently interested in ritualistic encounters...not religious but more on the lines of a gala it a fantasy I acquired from Eyes wide shut or what?

7/1/2010 1:58:15 AM
“I've already told you: the only way to a woman's heart is along the path of torment. I know none other as sure.” De Sade

6/25/2010 5:24:46 AM
Where does one go with BDSM?

The depravity, the extraordinary, the forbidden...are at the great gate of pleasure for those who dare.

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