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Switch Couple, 20, cullowhee, North Carolina
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Male Submissive, 24, Thomasville, Georgia
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Dominant Couple, 42
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About clandestyn
I am seeking a good match, not just any match. I am patient and willing to scratch a bit deeper than the surface to determine if there is any sort of connection before I engage in play. If you wish for an easy hook-up I'm sure there are others more willing than I.
I am not a whore or escort.
About me:
I'm looking for D/s (not 24/7) play with a true friendship connection and/or the possibility of a long term relationship. I admit to enjoying a moderate amount of pain, but I am not looking for abuse, humiliation, or degradation. Or in simple terms, if you are looking for a sub to be mean to, you will need to keep looking. My joy is to please and be a good girl, not to fail and be punished. If my suffering is what pleases, then I am being a good girl, not being punished.
I am a blonde BBW, large breasts, pretty brown eyes and a nice smile. I am smart, capable, funny (once you get to know me), down to earth and young at heart. I can be a stinker and I love to joke around.
For the sake of discretion, I do not take phone calls while I am home. I live with my kids and they really don't need to know this side of their mom.
Vanilla me:
Currently a full-time student, going back to work soon I hope. I have great kids and great dogs. I am independent, confident, practical, stable, and drama-free. I love the outdoors, exploring new places and riding my motorcycle. I like rock, blues and jazz. I dislike pop, hip-hop, rap. easy-listening, and country. I am a jeans and t-shirt type of girl. I do my hair and make-up, but I'm not a girly-girl. I only dress up for special occasions. I like things simple, I make mistakes, I apologize, say please and thank you and Have a nice day. I hate confrontation and drama, and try to manage things to keep all that at a minimum, however there is a stubborn bitch buried inside that I am able to channel when pushed. I like to do nice things for people, especially the ones who are important to me. I like them to know they are important to me and that I value them. I believe in being a good person and that there is good in others. I don't believe that all rules should be followed. I use common sense. I take risks and go after things I want. I do not create victims along the way.
About you:
You MUST be a non-smoker (420 ok).
If you're married, attached or "on a break"? Don't waste your time. I'm not helping you cheat on your lady, even if she knows about it. You must treat me as an equal, even when I'm on my knees before you. (If this makes no sense to you, please don't contact me). If you have anger management issues OR if you would describe your life as having a lot of drama, I am not the girl for you. It is absolutely necessary that you have a very good sense of humor and not take yourself too seriously. You should be liberal or not care that I am. I don't like to talk politics or religion.
Before I will agree to meet:
There must be a sufficient amount of communication and getting-to-know-each-other in order that I am comfortable meeting. That means more than a couple emails. I do not respond well to being pressured. There must be at least one phone call. The first meeting will be public only (public does not mean in your car), no play (not even a quick blowjob/handjob). I will meet you at the agreed upon location (no bars). It can be coffee, a soda at McDonalds, or a walk in the park, for all I care. HOWEVER, if I am required to drive a long distance (over 45 minutes), it would be nice to be treated to a meal. It doesn't have to be a fancy or pricey meal, I am not about spending your money. It's more about the gesture.
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