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CJMatthews - Male Dominant, Charlotte North Carolina | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About CJMatthews


Looking for an intelligent, independent, submissive (and perhaps even a bit inexperienced) girl to explore with.

I'm not a part of any official "scene" here (not to say that I'm not very interested; I've now met a few locals), but have enjoyed BDSM in private for years. I haven't actually been in a M/s relationship formally thus far, but its been a component of every serious relationship I've had.

I'm liberal,
progressive, humanist, skeptic, and agnostic. A lover of imported beer
and strong coffee.

Message me if you'd like to go for drinks and conversation, and if we hit it off, we can go from there.


I'm amazed by something I've seen several times on CM. A girl registers a profile, and within 3 days posts an entry saying that she's collared and fully owned by someone.

three days

I believe in love at first sight as much anyone, but it seems to be that commiting to a total power exchange relationship should be a "big deal" for both parties. You would never get married after 3 days, most of us wouldn't even get engaged after three days. But in many ways, entering into a Master/slave relationship is a far deeper commitment than marriage.

Maybe I just worry too much about complete strangers...
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