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Hetero Male Dominant, 29,  Bay Area, California
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My favorite letters in BDSM are the D and the s. (Ask, and I'll tell you the second two.) Dominance and submission. I'm looking for a strong woman who will submit herself to a strong man. If you are genuine, I encourage you to introduce yourself and look forward to meeting you.

Power and authority are earned, not granted. If a Dom tries to simply force his will because "he's the Dom", he may get his way for a while, but it won't last. Trust will be quickly spent. A Dom has to know his sub -- her limits, her needs, her wants and desires. Subs: it's not enough to just say, "Whatever You want, Sir." The more you are, the more you give when you give yourself to me.

I don't expect you to like everything I like. You don't have to. I doubt I'm going to like everything you do. Some things we'll grow together on. It's okay to be different. Difference is the beginnings of synergy.

Physical attraction is part of the equation. It's not everything, but it's undeniably there for everybody. Off the top of my head, attitude is the biggest factor.

More to come...











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 Dominant Male

 Bay Area 


 6' 1"

 205 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Massage (Getting)


 Anal Play


 Body Worship


 Breast Play



 Orgasm Denial



 Role Playing Games


 Conservative Politics




 Musical Theater

 Ultimate Frisbee


 Canes and Crops


 Speech Restrictions

 Card Games

 Intellectual Discourse

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Alternative Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Show Tunes


 Ice Hockey



 Corner Time

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Curious About:

 Scuba Diving

 Obedience Training

 1950s Lifestyle

 Gorean Lifestyle



 Needle Play



 Female Supremacy

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