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Male Submissive, 45, South St Paul, Minnesota
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Male Submissive, 25, Osaka
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Female Submissive, 38
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About chubber74
My name is Carol.
I've never been involved in the BDSM lifestyle. I only know of it from what I've looked up on the Internet. But I am interested and want to learn.
I am exclusively lesbian, and have been somewhat submissive, or "slavish" in my past sex life. I can elaborate more on that as I talk with people.
Update...
I've been here a week now, and learned quite a bit. It seems that different dommes have different ideas about various aspects of the lifestyle. That's actually quite helpful, as it enables me to get some sort of concensus on things.
I'm somewhat frightened by a couple of talks I've had with dommes on CM. But that fear does not dissuade me from continuing my exploration. I really want to know more and I would be willing to open up to anyone (female) who would be willing to help me out with this exploration.
Another update...
There's a lot of stupid bullshit out there. I get 'dommes" sending me messages (here or on YIM) like "on your knees bitch!" or telling me to do something stupid and inappropriate like open my pants and masturbate while I'm sitting here at work. When I tell them I'm not gonna do that, they say something equally as dumb like, "If you're not willing to do that, you're not really a sub."
That's just a small sample of what I've found. There's more...a LOT more. What I'm looking for at this point is someone who can answer honest questions, and help me think and talk through some things. That's all.
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