ChrysalisDream

Female Dominant, 45, East Bay, California

Male Dominant, 51, Paris

Female Submissive, 34, Edmonton

I think I'm pretty blatantly obvious when I say I don't want to try to make things work with anyone who's dom. Also, an additive: if you think you're "dating" me at some point or another and have lied and/or been deceptive (hiding things) which you think are or should be considered "water under the bridge".... When I say I've never been married, that's not a lie. When I say I'm not married, that is not a lie. When you start a relationship with someone, that person should know whether you are married, separated, divorced, or widowed. I've dating someone who was separated for a long time before he got divorced. But I'll be damned, he put that shit right on the table for me to see before claiming me as his own. BTW-nobody shall claim me as their own without asking me first. "Are you my gf?" "would you like to be my gf?" Don't just be like..."we're doing such and such, and I told so and so my gf was coming with me." ....so I'm your gf now?...since when. At what moment did I surpass the threshold of internet chit chat into gf territory? without meeting you?!! jesus. And when I don't talk, and finally do, don't use that as some way to retaliate. You couldn't be more of a genius about pushing someone away doing that.

I've been having an interesting time with my search. One of my friends from here was right, and I was wrong. So to clarify a lot about my profile, and sum it up: I want a cuckold relationship where I have one lover. One. Not 100...not even several. In a relationship: I want someone who can converse with me and fuck me (or be denied). Make up your mind, and I'll play into that fantasy. Cuckolding isn't swinging. I don't want a swingers club type relationship. I'm not looking for sex first, the rest will follow. i'm looking for the rest first, and once you and I are comfortable, then we can get to the sex topics. This takes time, and not like 20 minutes time, but like measurable time. If you can't go for a day without sex, stick with whatever you were doing before you started talking to me, and stay out of my life. If you are a high maintenance individual, I don't need that. I have quite enough drama without someone being dramatic. I do keep mental tabs and mental notes, and do not think I forget when I've said something. When you blame me on something I noted outloud or in text 1 day before, 1 week before, or 1 month before, do not think it's gone and forgotten. It isn't. I'm dominant (power and control) in a real life (non sex) sort of way. This breaks down to: if you want to control what I do and how I do things 24/7, this won't work. That's the high maintenance shit. I'm independent. Love it or hate it, I will do my own thing, like it or not. You need not inflict my brain with your high maintenance expectations of me fucking hundreds of other men, or black men, etc. I got my boy toy. I might have others sooner or later, but he is the one I enjoy fucking the most. This is for more reasons than any emotional connection (you guys give me UTI's very easily, and he never has fucked me in a way that caused me to have to break out the antibiotics, plus his cock hits my g-spot. it is what it is. Fucking new people=pain and.... illness type of pain=not my thing I'm not running into a relationship tomorrow or next week. That shit just doesn't fly. Making me be your bf so you can have me while someone else fucks me is just completely backwards. Find out what makes me tick, and then we go from there. For reasons beyond my control, I prefer someone who is able to see me regularly. I prefer someone who works odd hours and has a work schedule amounting to less than 60 hours a week. Preferably closer to me than farther. And lastly, because someone was asking why I said poly...I like the idea of being able to love many guys...this isn't something that happens instantly, and obviously takes more than sex. I also like the idea of being in a room full of guys....what woman wouldn't?...That doesn't mean that has to ever become reality. I'm in no rush to fulfill fantasies like they're on a long list to cross off as each one is complete. And this has nothing to do w/ the guy who asked, and all to do with the attempt at a relationship which didn't work out. I'm not into fulfilling someone else's long list of fantasies either. Either you are INTO what i'm into, or you are NOT. If you have other fantasies, do not expect me to do them just because. I'm not payment to you for what other women did to hurt you, and I'm not payment for what some guy did to help you out years before, or over the years. Either you like what I like, or you don't. Now that I look like the wicked witch of the west, will someone please understand when I say I'm real life dominant and not sexually dominant. I will take control in whatever way you want so long as it fits my interests, and that's as far as it will ever go. I will not be a submissive little whore to fuck guys of your choosing, and swinging isn't my thing. I'm done ranting, thanks for listening. sexual interests, other than the cuckold in the way I've already mentioned that I fancy that: *strap ons *bareback making a guy cum in my pussy *using toys in a guys ass Normal interests vary and should really be discussed in person. If sex becomes prioritized as #1 in person, I will determine you unfit for a relationship with ME. I have too much shit going on to have fuck buddies who want the control of being my bf like they fucking own me. Nobody owns me. Go take a fucking hike! And back to being my sweet self :)

If anyone knows anything about SEO stuff, would love a lil help. Thanks! ^_^ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Still have not found a suitable vegan substitute for the toy I found. I'd have to buy 100 harnesses and LOLLS, we all know that's not happening. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I've been a busy bee the last day or so, appending to my business website, and I wrote a _really_ funny song to bring in clients for my business. The song itself is non-spammy (though a friend said "well done but scary") so I might could record it as a video journal here on CM and nobody would know the difference. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Still hoping to build up my fanplusfriend funds. I really want to wear some goth lolita stuff ^_^ Maybe even get a white dress and design it in guro lolita. =D ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ fine (end)

Anyone have clues about Vegan BDSM that's more avant-garde and designer?... I'm talking strapons, harnesses, whips, etc. I saw this really awesome site that I officially want to boycott because "small me" couldn't influence her business enough if she produced a few vegan substitutes. Either that or the economy really is _that_ bad that she wouldn't sell to me unless I bought 100 mink fur toys. -_- poor fucking minks. I want to hurt men, not animals. wtf?! (I say the men comment in good humor, of course ^_^)

please no competitions with me to see who can write the least or read as little of a profile and/or journal as possible. If you read it, and want to disregard my profile, at least acknowledge what I wrote. If you want respect, earn it. If you want to chat, that's what you get. If you want to interview me for some sub position, move on to someone else. I am not looking to be owned. Thanks older "gentlemen." No offense or anything. ****************** Currently reading Chariot of The Gods, and probably going to work on reading the dead sea scrolls (for starters), and next on the list after that is the bhagavad gita. Chariot of The Gods might explain my current choice of reading the best. ^_^ ****************** Hoping to be moving around Mid May, though it might be later than that, depending on my situation which seems to constantly have rocks kicked up into the spokes and stopping up the gears of my life. damn damn damn.....

I just received a couple disgusting emails from a very disrespectful and unfortunate individual. There are lines I do not cross: 1) underage insinuations 2) incestuous/incest situations If you cannot respect that, do not contact me. If you take charge and play like that, do not log into the subbie's profile to send me an email like that either. And no, I'm not dense. I'm quite intelligent. Thanks. Buh-bye.

I want to spam...gotta spam...have to spam... I've been looking at clothes on this one website and it's certainly killlling me. This specific website could break my piggy bank. I have got to post it. If anyone wants to send gift cards, I'd be in love... The sexiest clothes ever, and most of my webcam clients are too cheap to buy me clothes :( Spend money on me and put a smile on my face ^_^ www.fanplusfriend.com go to giftcards, click, and use your paypal account to send me a giftcard. My email for the gift card thing is lollypops_are_yummy@yahoo.com This is not a contact for anything other than the gift card stuff. These clothes are effin hot. Do it now! Hell, spend a paycheck on me ;-) It's anonymous for both of us, so I'll never know who sent it unless you tell me. ^_^ ps-I never mix work and play (so please, save us both time and please do not ask what sites I'm on). I will not spam you with my webcam website stuff. I am respectful of boundaries, and prefer my clients to not know my location (prevents stalking)--hence the clean and obvious line between the two. I do not cross-reference either of them. ~~~~~~~~ To anyone who is ready to hear wedding bells: yes, I want to get married (eventually), but I'm not in a rush to discuss this matter. I'm certainly not on my deathbed, and I prefer to not be with someone who might not be home to even fully enjoy the nature of being a cuckold. I have much more on my plate to deal with at the moment, so wedding bells are the furthest thing from my mind (though really exciting to think about!). ~~~~ It appears as though my alpha male is possibly not going to be in my life once I've completed the move. This has left me with great anxiety and stress. arghhhhh....Nothing is more stressful than to think about this. ~~~~ I'm vegan. I don't mind if you eat meat/dairy. If you joke about it, I don't mind either. But try not to shove an eggroll down my throat. No matter how forgetful you might be, I do not want to eat the eggroll. If I want an eggroll that bad, I'll look up a vegan recipe for it. Please and thank you. Yes, that happened about a week ago. o_O ~~~~ I did this funny picture using yogurt. Real yogurt, and I almost puked. It was positively disgusting. I'm surprised that foods I grew up on can harness so much power over me. Even really convincing substitutes make me feel sick. (ie-vegan "beef" tacos)... ~~~~ I'm not looking to be anyone's strict sub. Beer bellies aren't attractive. A pic of your small dick isn't attractive either. Yes, I intend to have an alpha male. This does not mean that the cuckold gets to let himself go. I haven't let myself go; I expect the same from any interested guys. ~~~~ I'm growing plants! My eggplants and peppers are doing well...some better than others. I don't know where they will all go when they all require their own pots though. That will be an interesting day for me. I think I have about 100 plants taking root...all look vibrant, except maybe 4. My basil didn't even make a peep. Those pains in the ass got to fish-eye appearance and then decided it took too much energy to open, and thus they didn't. :( I really want basil...I guess I'll try again! ~~~~ Those damn electro-sex ads have been getting me soooo curious. Shock therapy for the pussy (or....?) ~~~~ If these aren't enough updates for the day, you have too much time on your hands!

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