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Male Dominant, 26, orange county, California
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Male Submissive, 41, North Hollywood, California
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Male Submissive, 24, park forest, Illinois
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About ChristinaCan
update: i hate having to do this, but ... if you contact me and you start off by asking me questions that are clearly already answered in the following profile, i probably won't respond ... but just to be fair, that's on you, not on me, okay?
i'm a divorced, live-at-home mother of one and currently reside with my parents in the western massachusetts area ... yes, i do realize having a child makes the difficulty of a m/s relationship shift a bit closer toward impossible, but i still need to pursue this for my own reasons ... my own needs ... maybe even my own sanity
even though i'm fairly young, i first became involved in a lifestyle relationship several years ago, so i'm not totally inexperienced ... that involved my ex and it just didn't work out for a number of reasons ... he's out of the picture basically and he's also fully aware i'm seeking a new relationship of this type
the bottom line is, it's very clear to me i can't live a "normal" life, i know, who knows what's normal, but you get what i mean i think
i'm seriously hoping to find a real relationship ... a long-term one, with love and defined roles and respect and obedience and all that goes along with the traditional roles of males and females ... if you understand the term "natural order", you know just what i mean
i'm often asked two questions most often ...
1) what kind of dominant am i looking for?
and
2) what do i have to offer?
so, here goes ...
1) i hope to find a new owner (key word) who is mature, experienced, determined, relentless, understanding, consistent, loving, fun to be with and committed for the long haul
2) i feel i can offer self-awareness, obedience, a solid commitment, common sense, affection, energy and curiosity
i have checked the relocation box, but that's only assuming i meet and connect with someone who's absolutely ideal for me ... if that should happen, i'd willingly go anywhere in the world ... if it doesn't happen, then i'll be here in new england the rest of my life
i always get asked about age ranges i'm interested in ... that's not an easy one ... i've known some very mature men who are as young as i am and i've known some very immature men who are in their forties and beyond ... what i do know is that i don't want a relationship with "my grandfather", so if your much older than 50 ... you'd have to be the most wonderful man in the world for it to make sense to someone as young as me ... please don't be offended by that
by the way, i'm not really a cartoon, but i guess i do sort of look like my profile picture :)
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okay, new journal entry time, ... because i can't believe what just happened ...
this "online" dom (i call him that because he demonstrated having had no real-life experiences) ... well, he used the word polygamy incorrectly and i suggested he revisit his knowledge of the word ... i even included dictionary verification to help him
he then chose to call me a child and he blocked me
yep, exactly ... i was the supposed child yet he's the one who "took his ball and went home" by blocking me
every day i have less and less confidence that there are any real men on this site who actually have any clue what dominance is even all about |
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i'm sure this journal entry won't win me very many friends, but i still feel the need to express my feelings ...
1) why is it that just because i define myself as "a" slave (which is certainly my right to do) so many men seem to think that means i have to behave as if i'm "their" slave?
2) why is it that when i'm contacted by so many men, they shortly seem to think i'm the one who's suppose to be asking them questions?
if they decided to initiate a conversation with me, why do they then assume it's my responsibility to manage the discussion by "interviewing" them?
it's just that i think if a man is truly interested in leading me, he shouldn't really need me to lead the conversation, right?
i'm guessing if the man can't orchestrate something as simple as a conversation, what makes him think he can orchestrate something as complex as my life?
uh oh ... now i have to add another one ...
3) i'm very serious about belonging to someone and giving away my heart, soul and body ... and what do i get for some people's selling point? ... they suggests they have "a great playroom all equipped with the biggest selection of toys you've ever seen" ... omg, is that really what some dominants think is really important? |
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