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Male Submissive, 24, park forest, Illinois
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About ChrisKNJ
I am not a submissive.I offer my respect to submissive people in a profound way.Let me explain.
Being a submissive is about realization.You must offer something of yourself to another person.Some people accomplish this through mind play, physical exertion, or other entertaining albeit temporary techniques.These are games.I do not discount them, for they can be fun exercise.
Nobody can be forced into submission.A true submissive has far too powerful of a mind for that.You may give pieces away under extreme circumstances, but they are not of any real importance.True submission is having somebody nudge you enough to give away what you already NEED to give away.Pieces start to fall away from you and you give them to another person.
Its only when you reach this point that you find whats so deep inside of you that you could never reach it any other way.You knew more was there but didnt have a way to get a grasp on it.
Reaching this level with somebody youre connected with is foreign to me.I believe people feel safer in this highly personal moment with a stranger.But again, Im not a submissive.
Its only when you reach that point at which youve given everything and then gone three steps past that.When youre mind is raped raw and you cant think and your body is reduced to its elemental animal needs.Its when youve collapsed and your dominant angel is holding you up while you weep uncontrollably because youve reached that far down.
Its that love, that affection, that soft adoration that I offer you when you reach that point.Thats the respect of a dominant person.That is the respect you earn from me through my utter awe at your strength.
Maybe I havent explained anything.Perhaps Ive just committed a literary crime that bores or angers you.Maybe in a world of these fun games, Ive offended you by being married or male or strong or weak or something else.So why am I here?
Because you have something you need to give me.
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I can create. I take you as you are and bend you. I mold you. You flex and twist and move into position. The leather makes a purring noise as it stretches. I can't hear your breathing over my own thoughts and the music I have chosen for this evening. A sad opera.
Finally, quivering, you move into the perfect form. Skin reddened, cheeks flushed. You can't hear your own thoughts. You could not have reached this place without me. It wasn't a physical experience. You could not have reached it in one step. It was a journey. You bent through mental and emotional challenges.
You moved. You didn't break, I wouldn't let you. That would be cheating. You have reached..... beautiful. I wish you could see just how awe-inspiring you are at this very... moment.
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I'm growing bored and I'm wondering if there is somebody out there that can distract me from the million things I have going on right now. |
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I'm in a bad mood.? I'm irritable.? It's not good for a dominant mind to be irritable.? It plays on the sense of control.? I tend to get very calm and quiet.? I think fast and move slowly and deliberately.? An evil curiosity edges out of me.? I have to be careful not to let it loose.? In my office, we have a warehouse in back.? I find myself walking through there every day now.? I picture where I have you.? Your hands are tied to long chains dangling from the ceiling.? There are a number of things that would come.? A number of things that would happen to you.? You're blindfolded of course.? That alone is enough to terrify.? You never know what to expect.? It may be a bucket of water.? Or maybe that third hand that strokes your back.? In the end you can't take it any more.? You cry and plead and I tilt my head to the side and that's when we really get started.? Don't play a game.? I'll know it.? I'll see through it.? I'll squash that right off the bat.? It's not about any pain.? When you think about it, there's very little pain.? There's fear.? There's anticipation.? As much as you hate it, there's primal lust.? A need to finish.? Quiet, please.
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My oh my what an interesting place this is.? I am one of those people that run through my day and when I see somebody walking down the street, I wonder about what they're like.? behind closed doors.
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I think that may be some of the attraction to dominant people.? They push and they push to get somebody to their foundation.? Their real self. None of the pretentious crap or the show.? I want somebody to cry in submission.? Not because of any type of pain, not because of fear, not because I asked them to.? I want them to cry as a release.? A combination of all of the above.
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Have you ever been scared?? Good.
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