chopstixxx

I'm a slim, reasonably fit guy with boyish looks; people usually get my age wrong by about five years, fortunately, in my favour. I enjoy the good things in life, such as fine dining, vintage bubbly and decadent clubbing. I tend to go for dry and sharp humour, when quirky isn't an option.

I'm in a committed long-term relationship, an open marriage sort of thing. My other half doesn't like kink, but since it's an open relationship, it doesn't need to stay that way. Hopefully, that's where you come in. I'm not looking for a relationship, but friends or long term play partners are preferred.

In daily life I'm quite dominant, but during play my preference is submissive. However, this is really dependant on our chemistry, with the right person I'm decidedly a top. I'm not looking to 'lock horns' over who plays what role. This has to come naturally.

I'm not new to the scene and have tried a fair few things but I'm always looking to have my boundaries explored and then stretched; or do the same to the right sub.

Ideal Person:
I'll start off with what I'm not looking for:
- The online-trenchcoat brigade sending penis pictures (try flashing Ann Widdecombe instead, you might get lucky)

- Pro-dommes fishing for clients; (go spam some more phone booths)

- Dommes looking for a sucker to exploit; (Louis Vutton as tribute for doing your dishes and carpets, no thanks!)

- Crazies, trainwrecks and neanderthals: no thanks.

If none of the above applied to you, then maybe you are the intelligent, sane domme with a sense of humor, in the greater London area (or a bit beyond), who can get the sub out of my assertive day-to-day personality.

Alternatively, as a dominant I'm looking for that lovely genuinely submissive girl, that needs bondage and sweet agony.