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Call me crazy but there is something very primal about seeing a woman naked on all fours looking straight ahead, putting myself inside her, bending over till my chest touches her back, grabbing her hair, pulling her head back towards me, clutching a breast in the other hand, and blowing a warm breath on her ear with my only audible words.....THIS IS MINE!

So I read something today that someone posted and I must say although their intention was to sincere, the quote really bothered me and made me thing that the person and those that believe in it are so far off base that they never stopped to realize what it was saying.  The quote...

"Real Submission is doing something even when you don't want to, because it pleases your Master."

This is so far off to me that I can't even wrap my head around it. On the surface it seems like that is the idea of submission.  But when I was sitting there thinking of this later yesterday I had to stop and say that the quote is way off base. It brings the idea into being that a submissive wants and desires play a role in their submission. If a Dom had to wonder about "Does my sub like this, does my sub want to do this?"  It would be a classic example of topping from the bottom.  Submission should not be conditional on the likes and dislikes.  If a sub is engaged in an activity that they don't like, but are doing out of pure status, they need a serious attitude, emotion, and mindset re-adjustment.  A sub should be happy with the service of their Dom.  The concept of "I dont want to do this, but my Dom does want me to so I'll begrudgingly do this to appease them." is very f'd up to me.  The Sub should be happy with the submission regardless the task.  I want a submissive that is happy to be my sub.  Not one that is my sub because we do things that she enjoys.  I guess my point is that the task at hand should not matter.  Of course certain limits apply, but she should be just as happy having her body used for pleasure, as she should be spending an evening with me watching a movie and relaxing after a long day of work, as she should be keeping the house in order.  She should be happy doing all these things because it is fulfilling her role as a submissive.  Weather she is being fucked, or whipped, or sucking dick should not matter to her, its what she is, its her role to do any with equal enthusiasm. 

I'd love to hear people's opinions and response.  Maybe I'm the one that needs to change my mindset?

Its quite amazing to me that there are so many people on here that say they are interested in a D/s relationship, and yet when they are asked what they are looking for they will tell you that they were just checking it out.  Either you want one, or your just looking.  But to post that your looking for the one true Master and then to say that you can't find anyone is absurd.  How many have you tried to meet?  I think that people are more in love with the fantasy than the reality.  There are more than enough women that are looking for a man to take care of them. They are willing to sacrifice their independence for security.  I find a large flaw in that philosophy, and don't believe that to be a submissive.  After all if you are looking for your "One", then it shouldn't matter the security that they offer.  You should be willing to fight, plead, and do whatever it takes to be at his side.  He/She should do whatever is necessary to keep you by their side.  After all if they are only looking for security then they would leave as soon as they found something else they liked.

Therefore it is my opinion that there are many claiming to be submissive, when in reality they are not submissive, they are needy, and wanting someone to take care of them.  They confuse that with the need to submit.  Just as there are many on here who say that they are Dominants, when in reality they just want a fantasy fuck.  There are an equal amount of submissives that are really just needy dreamers unwilling to change their idea of what they want the fantasy to be.  Note to submissive females...re-examine what it is that you want and how your going about getting it.