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Updated 03/20/16

I am a very submissive male seeking something that may be a bit hard to find, but I am willing to work hard to find it.?

In my work life, I am very Alpha.? I take charge, make decisions, lead people and groups of people and tell it like it is.? I don't mince words and most people either love or hate working for me and with me.? If they're lazy, they hate me.? If they're willing to work hard, they love me because we accomplish a lot and meet goals and get rewarded and recognized frequently for meeting those goals.

Outside of my work life, I long to live as the submissive partner/husband to a very strict and demanding Lady who could lead our relationship in every way.? I recognize that many people will read this and think that it can't exist, but I assure that I am very real and very serious in my search.? I seek to pamper and spoil you in every way.? Domestic chores, home improvement, waiting on your every whim, consider it done.? I LOVE lots of protocol and want it to invade my life 24/7.? I want you to control my thoughts and actions, my mind.

My job is totally re-locatable in the US, so if you live a long way but something in my profile strikes a chord, please reach out.? We will never know if we don't talk and explore.? However, please don't mistake this as me wanting financial slavery.? I don't want to pay for your time or buy you gifts to garner your attention.? In the scheme of a truly Female-Led Relationship, yes, I will allow you to manage my money.? But, like everything else, this is a matter of trust that's earned.

I have been in and out of lifestyle BDSM for 20 years, always as a sub and growing ever more confident as a sub, never developing dominant tendencies.? I am very masculine in my appearance and am not into sissy play.? I prefer to present as a male, albeit a docile and doting male, in your life.? I am totally comfortable and would actually prefer to be in strict chastity.? My place is at your feet and because I have a place in your life that I hope is special, I know it's not exclusive.

While I am open to all races and ages, please be prepared to articulate yourself and exactly what it is you seek.

I am not going to list a bunch of kinks or activities here.? Ultimately, you will control our sex life and what activities and kinks we explore.? I will just list my limits.

Hard Limits:
Marks that will jeopardize my job -- I have a very in the public persona and meet with a? variety of conservative people every day
Drugs - I want to be clear headed at all times and prefer that you are also
Children - For obvious reasons
People who don't want to be involved - Public play can be fun.? And if there is a select group of people who are kink aware, I am more than great with involving them.? However, I don't want to involve others who don't want to be part of the lifestyle.
Animals

Soft Limits:
Blood - Depending on the context and my comfort level.? For example:? Yes, I will pleasure you orally while you are menstruating.? But, can you cut me with a dirty knife?? Not a chance.


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sizzlingsexy69
 
 Age: 27
 Syracuse, New York