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I took a break for a bit, we all need that time to ourselves if truth be told. To All : I do recieve a great many messages from subs and slave girls seeking further experience. In My past, that was My onlyinterest in the D/s lifestyle. What I am seeking now, at this point in My life is an established, growing, long term relationship. Living life simply and realisticly as Master and slave. I am more then willing to answer any and all questions and concerns, it is after all the duty of a Man and Master to provide knowledge and to protect but understand that is not My intention here. I am not a player and yes scenes and sessions are enjoyable but I am seeking a committed, long term, live in, growing relationship. I girl preferably in the ages of 25-45 that is at a point in her life where she knows, understands and accepts the role she is destined for. To be owed and serve in slavery.

Intimacy is one of the aspects in a M/s lifestyle that is seldom mentioned. As to why, most generally seek the physical, bondage, discipline, the freedom of the sexual needs that unfortunately become the primary reason of the M/s relationship. It is the easiest way to enter this lifestyle in that sex in a M/s relationship offers the same connection as sex in a vanilla relationship. The primal attraction. And like in a vanilla relationship, once the sexual urge is, umm I won't say satisified but explored, then and only then do most explore the mental and emotional aspects of furthering the M/s relationship. Again the same concept is in the vanilla life that we left because we needed more. Maybe it's My life's experiences but I have always sought the mental and emotional bonding before the physical/sexual. I have accepted women as much as 30 years younger then Me but always with the understanding that the relationship is sexual slavery not emotional slavery. A young woman in her twenties needs the safe haven to explore her sexual desires through BDSM and unless she has the emotional need of a Father/Daughter relationship, it needs to be kept on a sexual level. But some of us embrace this lifestyle for the very real need of building a real relationship. Intimacy. What you have after the sexual needs and what is needed to build a growing relationship. The intimacy of common interests bound with the need of making love in bondage and discipline. Coming home after a days work, making dinner together, cuddeling up on the sofa and watching shows or a movie together and then the beautiful, tenderness of love. Binding your slaves wrists, pulling her up onto her toes and caressing her with your favorite whip. Teh soft moans, gasps of whispers, the beautiful red marks from the leather over her back, bottom, thights and breasts. Seeing, feeling and hearing her cry out the joy of her orgasms as you bind one ankle and spread her and bring the flogger to her mound. Teh intimacy of a Master and slave making love as we need to. Teh intimacy of having and building  a real life into our life.

I have been asked here and on other sites, what is the foundation of a Master/slave relationship as I see it. In it's very essence it is symbiotic. Each must have that security to be completely open, yes exposed. The Master must have the ability to sya openly even in interview and discusions, this is Me. These are the physical/sexual pleasures I need attended to but even more, these are the the intellectual and especially the emotionaly needs that I require. The same is true for the slave. She is not an object. Yes often times in scene or session, guiding her to being an object is mutually enjoyable and needed. But she also has needs, physical/sexual and especially in the needed baring of herself, the mental and emotional needs are so intimate and intense that they are the real treasure of the Master to know, nurture and cherish. The responsibility to take the time and show with love, the slaves value in her heart and mind that needs the security, the protection to be free. To see and be given the protection and confidence to serve and build the Trust to surrender all of herself. This lifestyle is filled with the players that take the title of Master and abuse that right to 'tell' a sub or slave their place. Umm. The beauty that the vanilla world will never know, is the beauty of opening the book of our true hearts and minds and sharing that most special gift. Taking the slave's hand and her heart and showing her how complete in the beauty her world as Owned Property can be when she is given the opportunity to discover and grow.

A little more regarding Me and the slave girl I seek. First of all I am Real Life. I am not a player or seeking a little one interested in a D/s relationship. I have been in the lifestyle for over 16 years and am a knowledgable and experienced guide, teacher and trainer. I am at a point in My life where I seek a salve. I seek to take on the responsibility of a slave in contract, providing for home, health and education but seek well beyond what most are looking for. So NO simple sex slaves! A lived, real life, true Master/slave relationship is mutual. The Master/Owner provides the safe and secure enviroment and guidence, The slave provides domestic, personal, companionship and sensual/sexual service. There is of course more but this is in interview and discussion.

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