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About ccbobc
After exploring for 12 years and having lived everything from 24/7 in San Francisco to a vanilla relationship with a touch of kink in Raleigh, I have had a chance to be a part of many styles, fantasies, and fetishes.
The most important lesson I have learned through the years is that my kink keeps evolving, influenced by those I meet and new experiences. And so I try and keep an open mind about what might feed my inner beast even as I describe where I am in my journey today?
I am a sub. I am a pleaser. And while the joy of D/s can run through all aspects of my life, I have not made a good slave.
I love spirituality and rituals but enjoy intimate physical and mental connections more than complicated training or scripted formalities.
I love to pamper. My service style could be described as ?hospitality? ? I like to greet you at the door in heels and elegant lingerie with your special drink in my hand or prepare your favorite foods for a candlelit nosh after a satisfying play date or dress in ways that make you smile.
I love the girly rituals of getting ready for a date; preparing myself to be pleasing. I think sometimes I would like to be a kinky courtesan spending my life fulfilling someone?s sensual and conversational needs.
I prefer a man who is as dominant undressed as in jeans or a suit. I always enjoy the beauty of a woman in fetish attire. I describe myself as bi-kinky; I can be attracted to a woman within a power dynamic.
I aspire to the idea of consensual non-consenuality. If you have developed trust and both people can communicate well then you can choose to give someone power; they then choreograph the dance. It all swirls around the feeling of really being able to let go? someone else is in charge and you have no choice. And the more you play with someone, the more you organically come to know the edges and how to push them. Because often the most intense experiences come from going beyond what is easy.
I have played with about every pain device and consider myself a masochist although it isn?t as important to me as the right energy. I love stingy and sharp things, I hate the cane, I don?t enjoy electricity much. The list could go on but personal strength and a simple demand can do much more than all the whips in the world. With the right partner, I like exploring rough body play - a strong body can be a powerful pull for both fear and submission.
I love sensory deprivation in the way of hoods, earplugs, blindfolds and gags. Giving up any of your senses can enhance an already exciting situation.
And probably most of all I like to be with people who are comfortable with themselves, can laugh even, or perhaps most importantly, when things get intense and who are open to and care about the world.
I am fortunate to be in a relationship right now but am always looking for new friends.
cc
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