CBTMistress

Some information about me, so I get fewer of the wrong emails and more of the right ones. Here goes: I'm laid back for the most part. I'm patient when it comes to the more difficult things in life, but extremely picky and impatient when something should be able to be easily accomplished. In other words, if it's a major project, I don't expect perfection, but if it is something simple, or more importantly, routine, I expect perfection. So let's say you are painting the fence, house, porch, what have you - I don't expect Picasso-grade work. I expect you to do a decent cover job and to double check your work when it's dry on the first coat and the second coat, too, but it's not the end of the world if you miss a spot that could have used more paint. No bid deal. The dishes you're washing, though, they had better be clean. I mean clean, as in no food left behind, no milk ring in the glass, no grease on the bottom of the plates, no crud in between the tines of the forks. That stuff is nasty and I do not like it one fricking iota. When it comes to that, I'm extremely picky. Some say if you want a job done right, do it yourself. I say if you want a job done right, use whatever means it takes to drill it into the slave's head regarding how to do it right.
I like to be able to joke around with the people who are around me. I'm flexible and I don't want some kind of formality/structure getting in my way of me being able to be myself. I would like to be able to find a 24/7 live in slave/sub/switch (only female switch, no male switches, sorry guys, LOL) who can fit into a situation that can be strongly vanilla at times, although most of my family and friends know what I am into. I don't want a situation where I go camping and wake up to find that my slave has tied his or her leg to a nearby tree, and now the temporary neighbors are gawking at what's mine. I want someone who can live a mostly vanilla life while knowing what might happen later on that day/week if they act out of line, and yes, they will come to know what that line is.
(I'm really not interested in anyone who can't/won't/doesn't read my profile, so here is a code word for those who are reading my profile for the first time:fishtank.)
I like to do things outdoors, and I am very physical. I like to do my own gardening, and this year, I didn't use a rototiller, and instead, I did it all by hand. Hard work, but very fun. I like to swim, too, so if you don't know how to swim, expect to get dunked until you do learn. I go to school, full time this coming semester, which requires a lot of studying. My classes are online, so don't expect to be able to burn up your time while I am working on my studies, and you are bored. I'll find something for you to do.
Age of my 'partner' is very important to me. i prefer someone who, if fmeale, is anywhere from 26/27 to 55, and if male, from 42/43 to 55. I'm not interested in anyone extremely young, as I'm not into breaking people into this lifestyle, as I want soemone who already has their own views and can actually voice them. If I ever want a doormat, it's not right now. I might later, as an addition, but frankly, I'm not interested.
I'm also not real interested in the painpigs, as that's a lot of maintenance, and with my schedule, that would be hard to keep going. An exception might be someone who already has an extensive assortment of toys designed for the infliction of pain just simply by its wearing by the slave. As for the cage, that is mainly for punishment and humiliation, not overnight sleeping as that would be counter-productive to the very reason I wish to have a slave here, which is to get some actual use/work/companionship out of and from them.
Yes, I have a cruel streak, and yes, I know how to induce or cause a great deal of pain, but I do that on my terms, and only to those I choose. I don't go around busting guys in the balls just for them having a Y chromosome. I don't want to hear from those who can't get a long term Mistress (or even a short term one)but find it amusing to go around telling random Mistresses (myself included) that they have been bad and need punished. If that is the case, find someone who can deal with you on an ongoing basis, because it doesn't seem like it is a one-time situation with you. It's not going to be the last time you're bad. Trust me, I know.
Anyways, I am looking for someone who complements me. Someone who is flexible, intelligent (no, this does not mean you have to have a traditional education), who has a sense of humor, who can tell a dirty joke, even, who isn't afraid of getting dirty hands, or even blisters (on hands and ass, LOL), and can also be submissive, respectful, and realize that life is about more than formalities and being hoity toity. (I hate that shit, by the way.)
I'm not into wearing the latex outfits 24/7, but if I wanted to, I have enough that I could. I like my cutoff jeans shorts and tank tops in the summer, and my T shirts and jeans in the winter. i wear regular sports shoes, hiking boots, western boots, and a lot of other styles, too. Yes, I have the 6 inch platform heels in shiny latex thigh highs, and yes, they are black. I also have low-heeled thigh highs in black leather, and also suede. I like different things. I'm flexible. Yes, I do change my mind on occasion. Other times, however, I don't.

I am NOT interested in chatting with anyone in the chatbox. If you want to talk to me, send a damned email.

Well, enough people (taunt, will you ever learn??????? If you cannot read, how do you expect to be able to use the damned chatbox?????) have sent invites, which has caused me to see red, so I've blocked all invites.
SEND ME AN EMAIL, sheeeeessssssssssshh!!!!!!!!!!
Do NOT act like a moron to get my attention, dammit!!!