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About cbtlovingslut
I'd consider myself an easy going, articulate, attractive, occasional switch that leans more towards the submissive side of things, with a fairly sarcastic sense of humour and rather twisted imagination.
I've been exploring BDSM for over 10 years now, started off probably as many people do with mild bondage, porn and a fair amount of laughter as things didn't turn out quite as well as expected (for instance purple body paint will cause some interesting stains on your bathroom set, but does make for a curious conversation piece when people call around) and things have just expanded from there.
The more I've tried over the years, the more I've been willing to give in to those curious thoughts of "I wonder what that would feel like..." and it's led me to explore a lot of bondage, electroplay, cbt, sensory dep, mummification, vacbeds, suspension, cp, rubber and probably a 101 things on top of that.
More than anything else the thing that turns me on isn't the toys or the situation, it's the other person; whether you're using a custom made bondage bed or dressing gown cords for restraint if you connect with the other person in such a way that running one finger down a forearm can make them shiver with need and anticipation then you're always going to have a great time together no matter what level of intensity you take the play to. That takes time and attention to develop though whether as Sub, Dom or Switch.
I guess that's what I'm really on here looking for. People of a similar mindset to chat to, see whether we get to connect on the right level and have compatible kinks... and then just see where it goes from there, whether it's friendship, friendship with play or turns into something more.
As far as "more" goes, I'd be lying if I didn't say that I hope to find Ms. Right for Me... Intelligent, witty and articulate, beautifully twisted and wickedly deviant.
I'm not just looking for somebody to beat me to get my rocks off, one offs just don't really do anything but momentarily scratch an itch. So much better when you can spend the time and learn all the little things that really engage the other persons mind, imagination and their body.
So that's me, or at least my current train of thought. If you'd like to know more let me know. |
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SeriousKit, such a wonderfully kinky site... all I need is a lottery win or two |
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Spent my bonus on a violet wand and some more electro kit, best thing I've bought for ages! |
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I've had a couple of messages recently saying that I can't be straight as I've listed an interest in Dominant Men.
I try not to get too hung up when it comes to labels, they're too narrow really and there's so many shades of grey. I guess I'd say I'm laid back about the entire thing and flexible, I'm physically attracted to women, but I've submitted over the years to several different men most of whom I consider friends.
After all if you're turned on by the idea of being tightly bound, hooded and then having your cock and balls tied, teased and tormented... that situation is still going to be arousing whoever is actually doing the deed. However if it's somebody you're physically attracted too as well then it can be enjoyable on so many different levels, but that doesn't mean you still can't have fun the when you're just turned on by the control and what's happening.
See, clear as mud ; ) |
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Wow, I haven't been on the site for more than 24 hours and I've already got several messages from overseas from people that don't seem to be able to read?! Is that normal? |
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