Blog 10th April 2011
Maybe it’s just me…cynical and a tad jaded? I have tried straight, ‘vanilla’ relationships, that have had all the togetherness and touchy feely stuff that I love, but have always been a bit too ‘safe’ sexually. I reckon I am too old now to settle for half measures. Surely there must be someone genuine, caring AND dominant?
I could swan around these websites, receiving thrilling emails from blokes who hide behind their computer screens, but really….is that any substitute for the real thing? The actual pain, or the real life humiliation? Not in my book.
I don’t come to these sites anonymously. I am open about who I am and what I like. I have no jealous husband, or boyfriend. My friends know all about me, so what’s to hide, other than from my children…who by the way are now 13 and 12…so less reliant on me these days.
My profile may put you off. Who wants a submissive who can speak her mind? Well, it may surprise some of you, but us submissives are a unique breed. Not doormats or life’s victims. We enter into this 100% comfortable with who we are and what we desire. Ok…most of us lol. I understand that these sites attract the attention seekers, the thrill seekers who promise you everything and then disappear, only to come back with a new profile a few days later. I have seen them all. Its not just the subs who do it either! For each genuine Dom I have ever spoken to, there must have been about 20 who were fakers, liars or wankers (literally).
Anyway, I am a prolific writer… so no doubt will have more musings to follow…… |