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Back again, nothing to hide. I am who I say I am. I am not looking for a quickie, nor am I just wanting a 'play partner' Submissive I might be, a doormat I am not.

I have been on and off the scene for years (too many really lol) and I have a wonderful BS detector! I am not looking for a cheap thrill, emails, yadi yadi yah. I have my own mind and am not scared to use it. Telling me to get on my knees will only elicit a laugh and a rude email in return!

I have loads of tatts, not many piercings, two kids and a motorbike as well as a great circle of friends. I am not a lonely housewife looking to get off on dodgy emails.

My Ideal Person: I am looking for a partner who shares my liking of the Dom/sub world. That said, that is not all I want. If you are married, partnered, a psycho, bunny boiler etc then you can jog on. I am too old for simply 'playing' I would like to find someone who I can be comfortable with, who likes a laugh and a few pints down the local, and is able to want me for who I am, all of me, not just the submissiveness.

Pervs need not apply, and you know who you are. There's a place for being a perv and in an email is not it.

I will not respond to messages if you cannot string a sentence together, nor if you do not have a picture. If you are genuine then you will have a picture of your face on here, just like I have. I have nothing to hide, am not ashamed of who I am, therefore you must not be either.

4/16/2011 2:41:19 AM

Not here as I am unwell....be back soon... in the meantime I am tucked up in bed feeling very sorry for myself.

4/13/2011 12:05:33 PM

Somebody asked me today (in a dreaded one line email) If I was serious in my search on here... well duh yeah...o I wouldn't be here... may I suggest that you read my profile properly!!

 

Anyway.. I had my tongue pierced today and can't talk without dribbling....NOT an attractive look lol

4/9/2011 11:51:58 PM

Blog 10th April 2011

Maybe it’s just me…cynical and a tad jaded? I have tried straight, ‘vanilla’ relationships, that have had all the togetherness and touchy feely stuff that I love, but have always been a bit too ‘safe’ sexually. I reckon I am too old now to settle for half measures. Surely there must be someone genuine, caring AND dominant?

I could swan around these websites, receiving thrilling emails from blokes who hide behind their computer screens, but really….is that any substitute for the real thing? The actual pain, or the real life humiliation? Not in my book.

I don’t come to these sites anonymously. I am open about who I am and what I like. I have no jealous husband, or boyfriend. My friends know all about me, so what’s to hide, other than from my children…who by the way are now 13 and 12…so less reliant on me these days.

My profile may put you off. Who wants a submissive who can speak her mind? Well, it may surprise some of you, but us submissives are a unique breed. Not doormats or life’s victims. We enter into this 100% comfortable with who we are and what we desire. Ok…most of us lol. I understand that these sites attract the attention seekers, the thrill seekers who promise you everything and then disappear, only to come back with a new profile a few days later. I have seen them all. Its not just the subs who do it either! For each genuine Dom I have ever spoken to, there must have been about 20 who were fakers, liars or wankers (literally).

Anyway, I am a prolific writer… so no doubt will have more musings to follow……

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 Age: 22
 London, United Kingdom