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CaziPS -  Switch Couple, Chatham | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

CaziPS -  Switch Couple, Chatham | BDSM Profile on Collarspace - photo 1
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About CaziPS


Due to life's interferring ways, we are currently not looking, but happy to chat. We will be leaving our profile as is, because despite everything going on right now, what we ultimately want here still applies.


Well we have been here a while now and we feel its time for a bit of a rewrite. We have discussed what we are looking for and feel we may have been giving the wrong impression about us and what we are looking for.

We are seeking a slave for a lifestyle relationship, we have no interest in playing either online or in a casual relationship, and until we are in a relationship we ask nothing more of anyone other than a little common courtesy.

In terms of the relationship you would be expected to maintain the house, cook, clean etc and also be used in any other way we desire, be this sexual or S&M related.

I like to think we are very open minded, and as we are looking for this to be a long term relationship we aim to find someone who is open to discussing what they seek from such a relationship. Now this is where I feel we have been giving the wrong impression about us. There is NO issue with being strict or sadistic or inflicting humiliation and degradation, or just torturing the hell out of you with a feather whilst bound and gagged as a footstool, we just want to be sure this is the type of relationship wanted and you fully understands what this means for you.

Being in a D/s relationship, we know from experience that we will not be micro managing you 24/7, after all, who is serving who. Neither are we looking for a doormat. Ideally the person we want we be able to go about their tasks on a daily basis, once instructed on how things are to be done. Spot things that need doing before being told and do them whether this be simply dusting a shelf or making a cup of coffee. But equally, speak out if they feel there is an issue, or make suggestions, and even use the brain they were given to create a situation or moment. (This is not to say we are looking for a brat that will contrive to get what they wish... this will not happen, trust me). Leaving us mentally relaxed for more intense D/s yet able to accept that some evenings we may just want to chill out with a film and a take away for a couple of hours.

Maybe we have not made ourselves clear about what we are looking for, you need to be looking to become part of our relationship, so initially extended meetings then moving in full time. Yes it will be a D/s relationship, that does not mean an end to having any life, (unless that is your desire) we manage to function perfectly well in the real world. What it does mean is you will be somewhere where you are able to explore yourself, and the lifestyle without judgement and with our support and encouragement.

We do not expect anyone to start calling us Sir Master Mistress until we have begun a relationship. and don?t do Internet D/s, unless it?s to support a real time relationship. We are very happy to answer questions and discuss our view of the lifestyle, but we would be looking to meet face to face for a chat, to see if we do connect, at an early stage. Finally we appreciate we all have things going on in our lives but should we start a dialogue, we would expect you to make as much effort to stay in touch as we do even if that just means popping up on messenger and saying hi.

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