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	About cavaleirojustica I am a intelligent, funny and nice guy.No, I am not perfect :P I am actually too logical, so sometimes I hurt people feelings by accident, or I don't get some jokes, and that sort of stuff, also my jokes (and I joke a lot) tend to be really bad.But if you want someone that thinks it is more fun to talk about physics or games instead of watching a strip tease (mind you I love these too ^.^ ?), I am that person.I have a WIIIDE range of interests, and I love talking (or arguing, as some would argue...), if you ask me about history, politics, physics, games or martial arts, I don't shut my trap...Now finally about my personality and beliefs proper, and what I am seeking:I am a Christian (and I like to talk about it too, if you are a fellow Christian and want to discuss something, just ask!), I am patriarchalist (of the christian type, that believe the male is to care and protect his women, not of the ass type that only wants sexual pleasure from a "selection" of women in his "harem"), and during my research about Christianity I ended discovering that lesbianism is allowed (yes, shocking I know...), and polyginy is allowed too (shocking too!).This lead to what I am seeking now: Females willing to create a household with me that follow the christian patriarchy idea, and I mean females that want to leave a legacy, take care of the house, be at the same time wives and slaves, and know that the head of the House is not supposed to be a tyrannical ruler, but a gentle knight, that loves, cares, protects and teaches those in the house.Mentioning chivalry... I am striving to be chilvalrious (a good book about it is The Book of the Courtier by Baldassare Castiglione), meaning that I believe in Justice (not the judicial system), Honor, Honesty, Loyalty, Love, Intelligence and great passion but united with the virtue of temperance (passion without temperance, and vice-versa, are vices), and I strive to learn skills that a knight should know, combat (I know Long Fist Kung Fu, and how to handle some melee weapons and bow), dance (still need to learn this one), music (I compose music, in the profile photo you can see my keyboard), humor, gentlemanliness, and science.You are still reading? Persistent aren't you? And not bored? Well, I am tired ?of writing for now, so read my journal :)Or ask me stuff, unless it would be a security problem I usually give away any info you want (even stuff people usually consider private)

The Crossroads in life. This is where I am now.

I am almost finishing university, I don't know what will exactly happen, one of the things that I am yet to finish is mandatory internship... But one thing I am sure, I want to leave the country where I live, because the country where I live is too dangerous, and I don't want to die young.

But then this causes the question: Ok, move to other country, but, where?

Also, if I find some slaves here, I take them with me? Probably I can't take them with me, so, is wise to search for slaves here?

Currently I am searching for slaves over the entire world, probably I won't find one, but if I do, at least I can ask her where she want to go, or just move to whatever place she lives (if the place is better than here, obviously).

Also I work with games, this also made me think, should I insist in being my own boss? This proved to be hard, specially without a partner, having a slave skilled with office work would greatly help to stay on this path, but the more stable one, working for someone else, means working for the grueling and boring AAA game industry, or to some small studio that barely can pay itself, so what I should prioritize?

While I don't figure all that, I stay on the current course, making some games, searching for a overseas slave, and hope that I will have success to either finance myself to leave, or get a good job, and hope even more that I find a slave in some nice place, so I can build a better life.

Some may think it is a weakness to rely on a still to be found slave to make decisions, but in fact I decided that I will build my life with someone (or more than one female... in case it happen), and building a life is something that actually need more than one person, even if I am the head, the leader, and I make the final decision, two (or more) heads still think better than one, specially when something concerns them too.

The Household - Chapter 1: Becoming a Master

There she was, the small girl, or at least small near my size, wearing one of my t-shirts, sleeping on my bed. No, we didn't do anything, what happened is that she is fleeing from her house, for a reason unknown to me, and she trusts me more than anyone else, we talked more over instant messenger than in person so this was being a surreal experience for me.
I've never had a girlfriend, or anything like that, having a girl sleeping on my house is something completely alien to me, and thus I decided to leave her sleeping for a while and went to do the things that I do every day, but after a while I remembered that she exists, and how I must take her in account, so when making breakfast I made for her too.
The smell woke her up, she came walking in a drowsy manner, hugged me and thanked for me letting her stay on my home, and smiled, one of the most enchanting smiles I ever saw. I led her to a seat on my table, and we ate the breakfast, in silence, just looking at each other, it was awkward for us both, she was in a strange house, and I was eating with someone else, something that is very rare to me. After some time, suddenly she asked something.
"Hey, you don't mind me not wearing underwear, do you?"
To me this was utterly bizarre, that was the sort of question for a woman to ask a men that was not her family or significant other? My face made it obvious to her what I was thinking, and then she fired.
"Oh, sorry, I am asking because I came only with the clothes I was wearing yesterday, I am wearing only your t-shirt, no underwear or pants, because none of your clothes fit me."
I nodded.
"Sure... I don't mind."
"Thanks! I will buy more clothes when I can."
"But you have no money, and you cannot go in the street wearing this huge t-shirt"
Huge because I am 1.78 meters tall, and large too, not fat, but large, in my childhood I was a swimmer and all, and this shows with my large shoulders and weight. And she is around 1.60 meters and probably weights less than 55kg, my shirt looked like a dress on her, reaching nearly her knees.
"This is why I said, when I can... I think I need to find a job or something."
"So, you plan on living here with me?"
"Erm... yes... that is... if you don't mind, do you?"
"Look, it is awkward to me, I never lived with someone that were not relatives, I don't even had a girlfriend, and you are a girl... you know..."
"Pleeeease? I promise I won't be trouble. I have nowhere else to go..."
And then she attacked, she did that cute face, you know what face I am talking about, THAT cute face.
"Sure, but stay inside, I don't want people thinking strange stuff."
"But if I stay inside I cannot work!"
"Work for me then, and I pay your stuff."
"That sounds like slavery..."
"Yes it does, but you want it, don't you?"
"Erm... yes! I mean, I need things, and I want to live here with you, because I trust you, so I would not mind that arrangement."
"Ok, then first thing is, I am late to go to the bank and do some other things, I want you to clean the kitchen while I am away, then you can do anything you want, as long you stay inside, and don't break anything."
"Huh... kitchen? I... hate kitchen."
I stare at her. A looooong stare.
"Ok... See you later then sweetie!"
This made me laugh, sweetie? What she was thinking, that I was her son or husband?
"Please, don't call me sweetie! You just started living here, and as worker, call me something more appropriate."
"Master?"
"That is strange too, but better..."
"See you later then Master!"
I laugh again, take the documents I left in another part of the table, and leave.

I figured that my profile, that I created waaaay back when I was a Horny Internet Geek, sucked. I am fixing it now.

What is BDSM for me?

Some people may wonder, what is BDSM for this guy? He is completly new to bondage, asks on how to not use pain... What is wrong with him?

To me, BDSM is not about kinky sex, or sex with violence, or whatever near that.

What matters to me, is not the SM part, it is the relation between dominator and submissive, even when it is only at the top/bottom relation on a scene. It is a thing of trust, exchanging power and trust between people.

For me, the skills, the kinky sex, all that, is secondary, what a person should learn first is respect, diligence, trust, honor, compassion, patience, humility, valor... Because BDSM is not a style of sex, it is a style of relationship, it is a lifestyle for some, what matters is now what paddle you will use to beat the sub butt, it is how much the sub trusts you to allow you to beat him without hurting.

It is sad when I see people that call themselves Doms, and are only looking for kinky sex with strangers, no intention to ever build a relationship, even if short.

I am looking myself for relationships that will last forever, people that will trust and by loyal to me, people that in turn I will protect, care, serve, love.

The collar, rope, shackles, are all symbols, because what truly binds is mutual love, trust and knowledge.

By accident I ended deleting my previous jornal entry...

I will not rewrite it (it was like, depressive...)

This post, is about what I belive is a Master.

A Master, is NOT the one that has infinite power over his slaves.

A good Master is the one that treat his slaves with respect, take care of his slaves, lead them to a better life, support them.

A good Master is the one that the slaves can trust, to do so the Master must never betray his slaves, and need to know the slaves better than themselves, so whatever happens, the Master always take the right decision for them.

A Master that use his slaves for selfish reasons is a bad one, the slaves exist to serve the Master, and this one exist to care and support the slaves.

A Master provides security, both physical, spiritual, mental and financial to his House. And the slaves are helpers to that, the Master must never forget that.

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