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cathi

Female Submissive, 32, San Antonio, Texas
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About cathi

It's time for a update on my profile

I'm what I am and like what I do. Like or don't it's up to you. I find myself submissive but then i'm very strong and perhaps somewhat dominate with some but i'm I'm very nice and respectful but if you rude, crude, or socially unacceptable then you will find my sharp tongue. I've a voice and will use it and if you cannot handle the truth then don't bother emailing me.

I am here to chat with others about this lifestyle. I'm not new to it hardly, but those who think they know it all DON"T there is somthing to learn new each day.

I'm sensual, kinds, erotic and very open, I even have a brain as well as other assets. I find pushy rude people rather sad and feels sorry for them. For they will more likey die old and alone with no one to serve and met there needs Sad...

Oh if you cannot read full profile don't bother emailing it will be ignored as some has already to whom are fake and cannot read i'm not looking for a Dom/Master Domme/Mistress online believes a friend should be first

Email that are one liners will not be looked at but placed on ignore Those who are fake go troll someone elses profile. I also know how to turn in fake profiles as I did this evening Dom----

It's been a while so.... *s*

I believe in speaking my mind.. is that wrong? Just because I know who I am and what I want there's some that tend to be pissy at me, rude emails, Why bother, Do you think I email when I read profiles stating I'm Master or Mistress, Please..  No i'm not a Mistress or Dominate, I do have traites that some tend to think i'm switching well I didn't lie, it would take someone strong and someone who knows the meaning of a M/s relationship is... Not some weekend warrior, someone married looking for a fast lay, goodness  If it's what you want just state  "  Hey i'm looking for a weekend lover" No strings, no attachments only a weekend of good lovin  Then your honest  but saying IM Master come kneel  becasue i'm Dom/me you have to respect me  get a life,  respect is earned, respect it's not given,  I"m me like me or hate me  Your loss but to some   *grins* They think i'm very nice and love spending time with me..  I know what I want and won't settle    
Now don't get me wrong with some I have found since they couldn't even dominate there right hand or fingers  depending on whom were talking about...........
Well enough but i'm really nice and funny and  I work hard and play just as hard with the right one   If i want too
Well seems my bluntness pissed off someone oh well to That person,  get a life and you might try  match.com perhaps they can find you a love match,  When I say i'm not intrested in nothing but friends Don't be all pissy at me and when I state i'm here just chatting with friends Hey if you don't like what I say  Then iggy me  Like I would need thearpy if you did ... I'm a very secure person and I know who I am ....  I can be the nicest person on this earth, as long as you have manners and is not rude .   But if your mean and nasty   lol  enjoy for i'm twice the bitch you every thought you could be  lol *s*
Enjoy life I do  and  in real time
it's been a long time since i've wrote here but why not go ahead

I have received a few emails today  You know the type
One liners mmm how attractive that is and you know they haven't taken time to read your profile and it clearly states i'm not looking for someone to play with.   It' states i'm looking for chat and friends only. 
To me someone ( meaning Domme/Dom) who go around sending emails to someone wanting more than friendship well how Nice is that,
Shows me there is no respect at all in the D/s world to some.  If someone has someone then they shouldn't be hitting on someone elses slave/sub  or does it matter to some please correct me if i'm wrong.   NOT GOOD....

Those who wish friendship is so welcome I love someone who can hold a conversation and more so love it when they can have a intresting topic.. real chat...  Lifestyle learning is good and everyone learns from everyone in one way or the other just don't try forcing your views on someone elses property. Use manners and try some class and you might find someone real..
I'm real in who I am  i'm just a female to whom knows where she is in life and has a goal and has learned from lifes experiences not all is good but they are still lessons

Manners goes a long way people,  Submission don't mean desperate or stupid  or ugly as i've heard from some   IN all reality i'm a lovely lady and not hard on the eyes.  But being sub don't matter in the looks might help in being compatable some but inner beauty wins out every time as i have both

Good luck to the real subs and slaves and be careful out there to many wannabe's
Same to the True Masters/Mistress careful for there are some real one's out there

Well it's been rather a long time since posting here, now is time.... What is it with some here? I'm finding some just don't have even one ounce of manners.. If I wish a teacher of grammer, Would go back to school.. Oh does have a degree too lol But if I chose not to speak as some would say proper english then piss off... don't read or go to hell Frankly my dear I really don't give a damn...  I am who I am and if someone is trying to change me to be something they wish me to be then pass me up, i'm me good bad but very nice and sensual too... It depends on whom i'm with, which isn't often with anyone, i'm lil to picky just to be playing online or r/t games with those who are looking for there perfect slave or sub, hell no one is perferct if it was, Put me right up there to but at least i'm honest and speaks what is on my mind, like or not, up to You and myself... 
Here online in this site the mail a female and male's im sure is so funny at times...  some write about what they can do for you,  mmm let me see, isn't it about what You can do for each other? Enchancing each other's life making it work together, as I would only serve out of love and be with someone I love.... and care for... it only makes me wish to be a better person for them as well as learning more things about myself.. Knowledge is power, knowledge is much more too if one know's how to use and when to use it.. Some believe that subs shoud be taken ha  take me and find yourself missing a limb..... might be one you like too

To take is stealing something , serving out of fear of what can happen if you don't do it right serving One that makes you smile and makes you desire to make them happy to do whatever you can to please without going against you beliefs

my first entry:   

i'm a angel, with the heart of a whore and a mind sharp and whitty. i'm true to me and knows who i am and the deepest darkest desire that i have  i know    
Here...   have had the misfourtune to meet with some    Who trys to Dom online  Oh my  thinks if see's someone new that joins there easy prey   Please is only new here  *s*  got it...  when one takes the time respectfully to know me will find me very much pleasurable and self assured i'm strong willed but can bend with the right Hand guiding me i'm not hard up or some pathetic lil girl who needs daddys whip upon her ass she isn't  a online slut for no One i'm here to chat to meet and to see if there is some chemistry here if there is then good if not    well all good things in time.... 

To one who emailed me told me first order to submission is to fill out my profile pics    Well one who can get my attention can get those too   Thinks im going to toss out my pics here just to anyone  please don't mean your a fake  as i have so seen in here many times     all is different  we all blossom and grow and do things in there own time  as i will do

not before i'm ready   This one does delete and iggy some that is  online fakes   needless to say its filling up so far   in such a short time how sad is that
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