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About cassie20
Hi there =] My name is Cassandra. I have 15 piercings (face and ears) and 18 tattoos (4 of them being part of my sleeve,) and I plan on getting more in the future. I am very friendly, open, funny, and caring. I hope to meet some interesting people and see where things go! :) I'm no longer single, my husband and I were separated for almost a year and we recently reconciled. I'm still very open to talking to and possibly meeting people if we've talked long enough and feel comfortable. ? I do not consider myself a slave. I am looking for a DaddyDom primarily. That is the type of relationship that I am most interested in having. I have lived my life so far being abused and degraded and it's not something I wish to continue in a possible relationship. As far as experience goes, I have a little. I've been a member on a different BDSM site for about two years and have learned a little, but obviously there is still much more to learn. ? I have one child, and he comes first in my life! The father is not in my life. I only say this so that it's out there and I don't have to explain it any time someone messages me. ? ? Let me be clear about some things: ? I give respect as long as it is given to me as well. I will not call you "Master," "Sir," "Daddy," or any title unless I am actually in a relationship that calls for it. I am NOT into humiliation/degradation, anything involving children, animals, scat, watersports or anything illegal. If we talk and we end up deciding to chat on Yahoo, do not expect me to go on cam for you. That is something I do when I am comfortable enough, and I do not under any circumstances take my clothes off. (More may be added to this as I think of things) ? |
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I haven't been a member of this site for terribly long, but I have a few things to get off my chest.
-You may consider yourself a Dom and I may consider myself a sub, but that in no way means that when you message me, you can treat me as such. You should not order me around, demand things from me or treat me with little to no respect. I am not your sub/slave/whatever. I have a name (it's part of my username if you hadn't noticed,) and if you want to talk to me, you can call me by it. There's no reason for you to message me saying "hello sub." The way I see it, when we first start talking we are on the same level and will remain there until we develop some kind of close bond/friendship/relationship.
-Just because you are desperate for a relationship, does not mean that I am as well. Messaging me and asking right off the bat if I want you to be my Daddy/Dom isn't going to win me over. I am taking things slow. I have no reason, nor want, to jump into any kind of relationship. It's hard for me to take you seriously if you try right away to make us into something, and I'll immediately lose interest in you.
-Finally, as a single woman, my body is MINE. I do not take naked pictures, therefore I do not send them, nor do I get naked on my webcam. I have reasons for this and if I feel comfortable enough around you, I'll explain them if asked. Continually asking/nagging me about it is only going to piss me off. The way I see it, if you really want to see my body then you can wait.
Don't take what I've written here to mean that I'm some kind of raging bitch, because I'm not. I'm one of the sweetest people you'll ever meet, I just have a low tolerance for bullshit and not being treated with respect. I will not tolerate boys, I want a MAN.
Oh, and PS..If you can't read a simple profile, then what the fuck are you doing here? If you ask me a question that's already answered in my profile, you'll be directed there. If you're interested in somebody then you can take the time to read what they've written about themselves, and go from there. Pretty simple stuff, guys. |
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I write a lot, and this is something I wrote yesterday about my ex.
I showed you the side of me that I believed to be lost forever. With you, I couldn?t help but let it out. Somehow you just pulled it from me.
Over night, you changed. You wanted nothing to do with me. Yet when you found any opportunity to try and break me, you put your all into it. You turned into my nightmare. Words cannot express how much hurt was caused by you, or how furious I am.
You stood with me in the cold on December 20th and held my hand while I threw my last razor in the dumpster. I was finally free from cutting and I shared that moment with you because I trusted you so deeply.
That?s how important you were to me! You saw me continually fight battles against my past and WIN. You were there for me every step of the way and I now realize how strong I am because of your support.
But like I said, now you?re just my nightmare.
God only knows what in life happened to you to turn you into the deceitful, manipulative bastard you turned out to be. There were a handful of moments in my life that could have turned me into what you are, but I didn?t allow them to. I stayed strong.
I?m generally very happy, even throughout all of this. I have my moments, like this one.
I?m free, though, of everything I used to be. I?m a beautiful person, and I have every reason to be proud of myself.
Can you say the same? |
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