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Hetero Male Submissive, 37,  NNJ, New York
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myablair PadronaJas Silentangl2014

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MY SAFE WORD IS more Please!! )) Now seriously..

Im a very honest, mildly mannered , good looking, masculine submissive guy, my quest is simple.... A pegging Cuckoldress for a long term FL relationship, maybe more if chemistry is right. I have a great sense of humor and a deep desire to become submissive and loving friend to the right woman,
Carthage ..












 Submissive Male


 New York

 5' 11"

 180 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Domme/Dom Couples

Femdom Couples

Friends Only

 Lives For:


 Anal Play

 Body Worship

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training




 Historical Shows


 Fine Dining



 Foot Worship


 Serving as a Butler

 Pantyhose Fetish


 Arcade Games


 Role Playing Games

 Web Surfing


 Female Supremacy

 Classical Music

 New Age Music



 Coffee Shops



 Breast Play



 Domestic Service

 Housework Service

 Massage (Getting)

 Massage (Giving)

 Role Playing


 Comedy Shows


 Horror Movies


 Science Fiction



 Intellectual Discourse

 Liberal Politics

 Libertarian Politics




 Opera Music




 Bar Hopping

 TV News

 Curious About:

 Scuba Diving

 Local BDSM Community


 Hard Limits:

 TV Sports

 Hip Hop Music


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Journal Entries:
3/31/2017 4:31:52 AM
MY pictures are available upon request to eligible Dominant, switch or (oh what the heck why not?) submissive inquisitors 


2/19/2017 2:30:17 AM
Requests for "tribute"
This scam is typically perpetrated by persons (male or female) claiming to be dominant women. Commonly, the scammer will claim that they are inundated with messages and that you need to send them a "tribute" (money) to demonstrate your sincerity before they will speak with you further. Typically, but not always, they will request that you send the money via an Amazon Gift Certificate. Not uncommonly, once the money is received, the scammer will stop responding to messages or delete their account. Before sending anyone "tribute" remember that your only reward may be a lower bank balance.

Report tribute whores aka findommes , Clean Collar Space and make it great again, as a social personals site

12/1/2016 6:50:11 PM
Since it's running rampant on this site like fungus ...

I hereby declare I need to be spoiled, Ladies Dominant, switch and submissive, spoil me rotten and shower me with Amazon gift cards ... standby for my Amazon wish list ;)

3/21/2016 5:07:07 PM
Wow... !!

Seems CS administration has stopped showing on individual profiles the interests in lifestyle they "live for, love, like, dislike hate, etc....".., That would make rifling through already phony profiles to find a potential lifestyle play partner or significant other a lot harder task than it had already been in an otherwise a deceptive site full of shady players!!   :(

7/12/2015 7:27:13 PM
Long flight... but back stateside safe and sound 😊 Until my phone reactivated, friends please find me on KiK as 'Cartego'... Carthage

6/11/2015 8:14:34 PM
I have been gravitating lately towards the thought of being a submissive to a submissive !!!

The idea of totally giving up control to, and being used by a submissive who in turn is being used and in total submission to her own Dom/Domme, is crazy white hot... 

I don't know if it represents anew phase in my submissive psychology progression, but I have always viewed submission as a work in progress...

3/4/2015 5:17:42 PM
Prague is a great charming little city... Only disappointment thus far, Czech cuisine, overhyped really.. Architecture is truly deive of the word Gothic & Gotham city! (Sorry NYC) Women are the prettiest I have seen across Europe thus far, and in great abundance :) Merits another trip for "in depth" exploration, IMHO

2/10/2015 8:30:12 AM
In Prague Czech Republic in couple weeks, seek me out if you are headed that way  ;)

1/31/2015 9:38:10 AM
In London.... Love the city's uncanny resemblance to NYC...subway /underground extensive rail system covering every major part if the city I need to get to, only surprising drawback it shuts down at midnight, really for a city the size and vibrancy of London!!. It was a surprise!, shopping restaurants, and even China town :)

Observation the Brits, relatively nicely dressed in general, while the ratio of pretty chix to less fortunate ones is certainly higher than what it's in NYC, then again I have been around for few days only....

1/31/2015 9:38:01 AM
In london.... Love the city's uncanny resemblance to NYC...subway /underground extensive railsystem covering every major part if the city I need to get to, only surprising drawback it shut down at midnight, really for a city like London, it was a surprise!, shopping restaurants, and even China town :) observation Brits are too polite, nicely dressed in their preponderance, while ratio of pretty chix to ugly ones is certainly higher than what it's in NYC, then again I have been around for few days only....

12/24/2014 5:48:13 PM

Merry Xmas... to those celebrating it.... happy New year to all others...

12/17/2014 10:46:36 PM
in London England late January , Prague The Czech republic early March, lifestyle Friends in these locales feel free to approach ;)

12/12/2014 7:00:48 AM

Strapon play looks & feels far better on a clip than on bed :(

Note to self: 

Drastically cut down on strapon porn

11/9/2014 4:53:22 AM
Erotica & sex... An amazing force granted to mankind.. And it never fails to pick one up from the verge of boredom & sadness....

10/19/2014 7:12:00 PM
Back to NY, this week.... 

Goodbye San Fran.

8/27/2014 9:13:40 PM
The greatest gift a man can give a woman is his true, unconditional and unwavering submission

8/8/2014 10:24:07 PM
Stumbled over a Journal entry of seemingly an established Domina, who seems to have an intimate operational knowledge of cuckoldry , as I was reading half way through I found myself oozing cum without a touch.. A feat that I haven't experienced since my good teens years...

"?How to Totally Emasculate a Man Compare him unfavorably to other men (his lovemaking skills, his endurance, his penis size) Make fun of him, tease him, and belittle him? especially in front of others (like your girlfriends, people you meet in public, his friends and family) Let another man be your hero. And your cocksman. Fuck one of his friends. Make sure he finds out about it, but not right away? give it a few weeks or months. And don?t tell him who it was. Keep him guessing. Lock up his little penis, and control his orgasms? to no more than once a month. Take his ass with a strap-on, gradually increase the size until he can take a dildo as big and thick as your Bull?s cock. Make him suck cock for you. Make him suck off your Bull, to completion in his mouth. And make sure he knows that you told your girlfriends about it. Make him offer his ass to your Bull. And make sure he realizes that it?s not going to just be a one time thing. Take a leather belt to his ass when he disappoints you. Don?t be afraid to mark him up. And remember, corporal discipline should always be to tears, so that he ?gets it?.Severely restrict his access to the pussy, and make him pay for it. Get him acclimated to the idea that he will always have to pay for the pussy? even just to touch it, to taste it, and to smell it.Give away the pussy to other men for free. And make sure he knows it.Make him wear girly lace panties to work under his business suit.Send a close girlfriend to his office to inspect his chastity device, to make sure it?s locked up like it?s supposed to be.Make him lick you out and clean you up after you?ve been with another man. Make this a regular part of his experience. Get him used to the taste of creamy cummy pussy.Take him in to a salon to have his balls waxed? and his legs, and his ass, especially in the crack between. Insist that he be smooth and hairless for you below the waist.Let him ?accidentally? catch you in bed with a black man? like when he gets home from work, or whatever? then look over at him and tell him to ?get the fuck out and close the door?.Have a friendly talk with his secretary over the phone about his erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation problem, casually mention it in the context of confirming a medical appointment for him.Slip away at a charity event to give some other guy a blowjob in the hallway, and then return and give him a kiss. But don?t tell him who the guy was. Keep him guessing.Invite your Bull over to spend the night with you in the master bedroom? and make your man sleep in the guest room.Don?t hesitate to reach over and smack him in the balls when he does or says something inappropriate.Tease him that you?re seriously thinking about having his balls removed because? ?it?s not like you really need them anymore?. Fuck one of his enemies, and make sure he finds out about it. Tease him afterwards about how good the guy was in bed, that ?at least he didn?t cum in two minutes, like someone I know?? and that the guy was ?a lot bigger than you, much longer and thicker?? and that ?he wants to fuck your wife again next week?. This will drive him absolutely mad! Make it clear to him that you intend to date and fuck other men, and that ?you?re just going to have to be okay with that?.

6/23/2014 4:49:50 PM
Summer is here!

Currently in long Summer Vacation overseas... Dommes from Germany, Austria, Greece & Turkey... Are encouraged to contact me (if you like the profile of course)   

Dommes in US... Miss me till I come back ..

Thnx ;)


1/3/2014 2:09:40 PM

Vancouver BC .... picturesque city.. however BORING  :)

1/1/2014 12:41:18 AM

Happy new year CM... And all my friends on CM Dominant,switch, subbies and slaves, singles and couple.... :)

12/27/2013 12:11:37 AM

In San Fran.  :)

11/28/2013 4:16:49 PM

Happy thanksgiving everyone reading my profile... be ware of the poisonous undercooked Turkey....  :)

11/21/2013 10:50:07 PM

Back home after a lengthy delightful vacation in Europe -if one can call FL home!-


The mere return to one's rut, sucks :(


Till next time



10/24/2013 5:05:17 AM

Lost souls.

 I hope not doomed souls just lost ones...

9/18/2013 3:18:51 PM

I have the greatest respect for everyone's backgrounds, interests, and intents 

And I wish the others would afford me the same courtesy. 

Lady Findome, Miss Amazon, Madame Tribute and Mistress Pro... 

I have NO interest what so ever at this time in a paying scheme or having a financial arrangement with anyone to find a partner or a connection with someone in this lifestyle..


if and when this sentiment changes, I know where you are.. And I will be crawling on all four to your doorstep :)



Thank you !

9/14/2013 12:21:56 AM

CM.. is a bitter sweet , love hate affair.. I really despise CM yet I keep signing on ..


It's a paradox that shows human weakness and confusion at it's most outrageous manifestation ...

7/2/2013 5:44:10 AM

Currently in Europe for the summer, I read the news about the heat wave baking the US with a grin :)

1/11/2013 9:16:37 PM


Lady , if your profile contains an amazon link, trust that I will NOT reply to your message.. Even if your intent was not entirely Amazonian :)

11/22/2012 12:59:27 PM

Sometimes ... I can't help thinking  '' owes it's existence to the'fin' dommes on CM

9/19/2012 6:57:17 PM

Funny thing ...A not too intelligent nut case wanted me to drive 30 miles round trip, with out as much as a picture or even a modest description in words !!!?

So basically I am required to take a leap of faith & drive the said mileage to see a ghost!! 





8/6/2012 11:26:57 PM

Yaaaaawn....... good night

7/30/2011 1:56:39 PM

To the many wonderful PRO Dominant ladies on CM, you provide invaluable services to many people , however I'm not looking for -pay 4 play- at this juncture, if and when the time comes , I know the way to your dungeons... Thank you

5/14/2010 5:19:21 AM
Julie !!

Not you! the other Julie .. you know yourself!

What a fraud !!

4/30/2010 4:09:53 PM
My first and probably lonely entry into this journal

Most people -many of whom undoubtedly distinguished people in real life- come to these boards to live a life of fantasy of what they think they want to be or do for few minutes, few are willing to transcend the fantasy realm and step right into the world of reality and RL experience.

I have met no one real thus far on Collar Me, seems the few good and compatible choices residing far and away, the rest are simply online players,fakes and gamers,pls no more!

till further notice

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