Decided it was time to update my profile. I came across the following on another site so I nicked it...with permission of course ;)
I want love, I want commitment, I want vanilla, and I want bdsm. I want possibilities and not closed doors. I want honesty and not hidden agendas. I want realism and fantasy; and I want it all wrapped up in a physically, emotionally, and mentally appealing and intriguing package.
I can do neither just plain vanilla nor equally plain bdsm. I want the two seamlessly intertwined where sometimes the vanilla side may be more apparent and other times the bdsm may come to the fore, but always binding each other together into one fabric.
A needle in a haystack? At the very least! But I can no longer compromise, I've come too far to go back.