I am obese and have been my entire life. In the past year I have lost fifty pounds independently but family issues have somewhat derailed me in the past few months from losing further weight. I have been very determined so far but I am finding that I crave structure, discipline and oversight in this endeavor. I seek a Dominant individual or couple with the desire to control and exercise authority over me in this area.

My desire is to lose weight so that I can improve my health and quality of life. Even after losing just fifty pounds I feel so much better.

I live in western Massachusetts but I feel like I’m looking for a unicorn so I am posting this ad in several different states.

I desire to be totally obedient and follow your every direction. I will serve you in every non sexual way possible. I will act as a domestic servant, administrative assistant, conversationalist, or however else you may feel I will be of use.

I am a masochist. I have been in relationships with power dynamics. I do have a submissive personality in relationships and a deep desire to be owned and serve.

The person I am looking for has real concrete experience either as a nutritionist, personal trainer, and athlete or in some other related area when it comes to fitness and healthy eating and living. I am seeking someone with this knowledge who has the desire to enter into such an arrangement with me. I am not looking for a horn dog or someone who is pretending to want to do this so that they can get laid. I am not seeking necessarily a “forever type” of relationship or anything resembling a vanilla or traditional relationship but I am willing to keep an open mind. Ideally this individual gets off on controlling someone and perhaps has a sadistic streak that complements my masochism and desire to serve.