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CaringCaptain

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CaringCaptain - Male Dominant, New Brunswick New Jersey | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About CaringCaptain

Looking for either sub or switch females or couples with at least one female who I will dominate. The most important aspect of me domming is mutual respect for one another. I rarely do any one-off sessions.

I am strict but very caring and possessive of my subs. I make my sub feel that I am proud of her always when she/they are obedient. I make rules about pain and punishment (sometimes routined lifestyle) but am flexible about them. All of these rules and freedoms are decided based on a detailed conversation where we get to know each other first.

I am ultimately searching for a sub (for DS) or little girl (for DD/LG - I love this) to secure a life with, but open to longterm play with couples as well. I will find a friend and partner in you and will remain exclusive. If sex is all you need, please read this entirely about my likes and limits. Feel free to message me if you want to get to know me as a person, be a better woman by accepting me as your Master (or DD) and want to potentially find a life partner.

Being a sub/little is a mental state and is not just about sex. It's about accepting your Master as your own and living for his happiness. Please message me only if you are mentally strong enough to be prepared to be in such a state. Newbies are welcome, but they need to be trained to reach such a state of mind. Remember, I am always careful and respectful of my sub's boundaries.

Main interests include the following in addition to vanilla (note that our interests may not match completely and we will do things which only lie at the intersection of both of our interests and kinks.):


  • Petplay. I like collaring my subs and making them pets. We can come up with a pet that fits her personality.

  • Anal. I love everything about the asshole. From licking to drilling it. I will care for your asshole and train you to handle heavyduty stuff in there. I will lick it time to time and also get myself (and other things) in there. Of course, respecting your limits too.

  • Rimming. I make my subs rim me time to time. Again, respecting your limits.

  • Golden Shower. Pee on each other. This is the most I do in toiletplay.

  • Humiliation and degradation. I make all my subs go through humiliation to make sure they know and understand their status in my life. Of course, I will value them as a life partner, but I will make you recall from time to time that she is a sub and I am a Dom. It can include body-writing, essay-writing, denial, repeatedly saying phrases and so on.

  • Rope play. Various forms of bondage with ropes and eye patches.

  • Punishment. Whenever she fails to follow some rule or instruction, or a part of a routine, it will not be ignored and will come back to her in the form of punishment as a corrective measure. The most usual form of punishment is pain, including but not limited to nipple clips, clit clips, applying spicy objects on sensitive areas (ensuring no damage is done - this is a limit of mine), standing on one leg and so on. Other punishments can include essay writing, cornering, denial, edging, etc.

  • Aftercare. This is my most favorite. I always try to make my subs/littles feel special whenever they do something successfully (for example, pushing a certain limit) and try to make them feel confident. Aftercare can come either after doing some task in a great way or after a session where she was highly obedient. An important aspect in our relationship will be to make her feel confident and let her know that I am proud of her.

  • Pushing limits. I always encourage (not force) my subs/littles to push her limits and be a better sub day by day.


Limits include anything illegal, blood, scat, damage to bodypart.

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