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You have to love the above it seems to have grown out of control everybody seems to have it tagged on the end..
Look at it from this way..if you didn't want something known or seen don't post it..hundreds of things are put up daily.. |
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. You?re able to let go of the past.
People in healthy relationships know that failure and mistakes are nothing but pathways to attainment. They don?t let past stumbles dictate their current relationship.
We can be hurtful creatures at times. But as long as we use these moments to grow and learn, our relationships can become stronger. The sign you?re in a healthy relationship...your relationship has got stronger over time.
The ultimate sign of a relationship that?s sustainable for the long-term is that it slowly builds, developing deeper roots with each passing year. There are lots of things that help make this happen.. I think most importantly, people in healthy relationships take the time to say (and mean) the following words often:
I love you.
Thank you
I?m sorry.
I?ll leave you to ponder this quote from the late, D Wallace.
The really important kind of freedom involves attention and awareness and discipline, and being able truly to care about other people and to sacrifice for them over and over in myriad petty, unsexy ways every day. |
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http://www.humansexmap.com/
Have a look at the link..you'llbe amazed at the range of things that can"spice up" the same old same old kink.. |
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?The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.?― Bob Marley
Sums up alot of things.. |
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This seemed like something that had to be shared..
I remember being impatient and nieve. Hopeful and full of joy, eager, happy but when the dark times came i survived as i was excited just to be me.
I ask myself when did I change.
My life has sometimes been turned up side down, had some amazing highs but at times has come crashing down. And each time I bounced up, but when the dark times came I survived as I was still excited to be me.
I ask myself when did I change.
I have lost and found love. Not only did I feel but i also caused heartache and pain. And each time a lesson was learnt, and when the dark times came I survived because I was still excited to be me.
I ask myself when did I change.
I had no fear and I would gave all that I had my mind and body and soul.Sometimes it was good and sometimes not but when the dark times came I survived because I was still excited to be me.
I ask myself when did I change.
I have made many choices, some good the majority not. But I lived by them and stood up and took the blame for them but when the dark times came I survived because I was still excited to be me.
I ask myself when did this change.
You see I look at my life now and I am happy, I am surround by people I love, yes it takes a little longer to bounce back up, and maybe I have a few new fears but when the dark times come its now a stuggle to survive as i am no longer excited to be me.
I wish I knew when I changed |
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A successful relationship is about reciprocity, meeting each other's needs.
If I don't meet your needs, why would you want to stay with me?
If you don't meet my needs, why would I want you to stay with me?
This sounds and looks simple when its written down..but looking deeper there is always more to it...Think,Talk,Think some more..
Act only when you're sure the time is right..you may need years to find it but you will find it..look deep inside behind the baggage inside the stone heart or the armor we all have and use...
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Had some sad news this evening..rip Lou you nut...you'll be missed much .
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Quick sorry to those who i chat to having not being around for a few days because of work.. |
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What a weekend..sometimes you just have to wonder at just how some people ever passed a driving test...an to cap it all the nice weather seems to bring them out more!!!
It pains to say this but can it be winter? |
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What's gone wrong with the weather..it's sounding more n more like a hurricane outside..it's May of Pete's sake!! |
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A time to let the tears fall
A time to reflect
A time to reconnect to self
A time to recall the special times
A time to release
A time to be gentle with oneself
A time to find your smile again :)
All time stands still whenever you think of this..look at each and every heart you touch and be kind to it...you never know when yours maybe broken next.. |
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Sadly the wacky and those who are only interested in playing mind game's at other's experience have claimed another lovely person...
RIP..my friend.. |
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Sat watching the beautiful spring like day turn to more like something from mid winter... |
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Rip C.D.Wright...half of the two fat ladies...not totally pc spoke the truth when it wasn't the thing to do... |
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That's got to have been the worst days weather for an age today...
Be safe n stay dry to all. |
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Time and friendships..
Learn to talk to people as people find the common ground and move with it..
This place has loads of real people..find them talk with those..Trolls n fakes will always be here..look behind them..trust yourself.. |
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Well my phone finally gave up the ghost...losing all my stored numbers..
T plz text..have no number.. |
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Sat here thinking does fate have anything to do with life today??
We're all busy with self that we forget about those we call friends..
To those i have the honour to call that be safe n live for you n yours,take each n every chance you get to be you and don't let this world get you down..beautiful as is life live it we get only one..don't hate itself is not worth it..set those that don't wish to be within your world free to fly..
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10 Signs you're too old for BDSM...posted for Shadow's benefit ;) Note | 161 Comments ? 733 Love It | 3 days ago
1. Sensory deprivation is when your Dom hides your hearing aid batteries.
2. Your nipple clamps have training wheels.
3. Edge play is standing by the microwave with a pacemaker.
4. When you tell your sub to get the cane, you have to specify "walking" or "beating" .
5. You can't tell the difference between your tattoos and your age spots.
6. You shout "One, two, three, CLEAR!" for electrical play.
7. Your idea of breath play is when your wheelchair runs over your oxygen hose.
8. Your idea of suspension is an UltraLiftT bra.
9. You hold the paddle and say, "You're younger than me.... back into the paddle....HARD!"
10. Age play really is 24/7
Saw this an smiled... |
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Amazing how the little things in life we take for granted are so important..friends,family ... not replaceable..
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As always.. best laid plans..gone up in a puff of smoke.. |
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To those who feel it's right to be rude,respect is not aken it's given...spend time to ask the questions of life...to many walk from one to another...
Be they submissive or dom/me
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To one who knows who she is thanks for being a friend ..and good luck...
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The happiest of starts to the New Year...a totally refreshing change...friends are all good n life is looking brighter. |
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Life some times just can be a pain and get it the way... |
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she wanders thru each room in search of Him..
she is ever the delicate little fem..
stopping in each doorway to slip to her knees..
oh she does it well with such submissive ease..
she looks about her thru smokey lashes..
showing her attributes off in pretty lil packages
a fingertip glides over flesh that is bare of collar
though the skin is indented thru the wearing of so many others
she flirts....she giggles...her laughter how merry
her voice turns husky...lusty ..beguiling you to tarry
she will be your sub...your slave .. your everything
as long as on that neck you place the golden collar ring
she will dance and skip about..modeling her finery
she will proudly proclaim you the master of her heart
that is until another causes her longing to start
afresh she begins the chase after discarding your gift
and thru the ashes of your pain you begin to sift
you see her more clearly now...and realize her haste..
she needed your collar...this much is true..
but only to cover the tawdry green ring around her petite lil throat
left there by the cheapness of the imitation golden hue..
upon which she so dearly loved to show off and gloat. |
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Well thinks look up then fall just as quickly...time to sick and not turn the next card...
Good luck to anybody turning the cards of lifes hands |
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Things sometimes move slowly and the turn corners an go full speed ahead...then go slowly again...the same is true with life... |
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I've one wish....just one please for at least a few weeks can it stop raining... |
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Have had a busy week/10 days..looking forward to getting back to other things |
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Have i missed something...snow!!!! Grrrr but on the plus side..a lady who knows who she is seemingly is growing..oink. ;) |
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Has spring sprung? Well if the muppets cutting grass all day and out in the gardens are anything to go by..yep it's here...
I heard a mum tell off the kids for " making to much mess cutting the grass!!" How?? They where doing a good job..and had the thing finished..lol.. |
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To-morrow is Saint Valentine's Day All in the morning betime, And I a maid at your windo To be your Valentine. William Shakespeare from Hamlet, Act IV, Scene 5
An we think the hip is new...hmmmm makes you think. |
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A small price to pay for happiness...to talk...time to learn about both sides of the person..
Words are the way to find the true soul of a person...talk to them and learn to know them...i have made so great new friends on here that i would trust to be around... |
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It's been along an hard two months. I can safely say i've had the miss fortune of seeing far to much of the insides of churchs and grave yards...and not for weddings..
I am sorry to the few(you know who you are) i just needed alone and down time...hopefully a new year will end all the hurt and sadness thats around..to the remaining..life will get better in time...or so i'm always told and tell.. |
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