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Male Dominant, 40, london
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Male Dominant, 28, houston, Texas
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Female Submissive, 28
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About CareControl
I am a semi retired professional engineer who runs a part-time practice, manages my rental properties, is training for my first marathon, and seeks the right submissive to have a long-term, hopefully lifetime, Ms relationship. I am well read on human psychology and Ms relationships, and have experience as both a Dominant and a Master since 2015. I have led submissive women in less overtly Ds relationships for over 20 years.
I have given substantial thought to what I want from a relationship. The short version is a female submissive, ideally consensual slave, who craves serving, and wishes to be directed by their Dominant at all times. Certainly with exceptions made to allow time for emotionally fulfilling work, family and friendships. Macromanagement for life, micromanagement for play.
I offer care, structure, nurture, appreciation, and direction from a stable, sensible, and intelligent man. Through introductory consideration, and ongoing over time, I will make it my goal to learn everything about my sub her needs, her desires, her fears, her aspirations, her ideals. I will meet those needs as best I know and learn how, in the ways most meaningful to her.
Because I seek a devoted submissive, rather than a brat, I use positive rewards rather than punishments as the primary means of modifying behavior. In psychological terms, I believe strongly in operant conditioning, which means much more positive reinforcement (reward for good behavior) and negative punishment (removal of something pleasant for bad behavior) than positive punishment (an unpleasant stimulus for bad behavior). Funishment is enjoyable play and reward, while its efficacy at changing behavior is dubious at best.
My partner will be expected to bring all her concerns and desires to me, understanding that this is the only way I can know and thus address them. She will accept that the decision of whether, how, and when I address them are decided solely by me. |
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