I have not pursued this D/s lifestyle in person with anyone before, but I know I would like to. I am very discreet about this and prefer something in private as opposed to public. I am 5'4" and thin with dark brown hair, blue eyes, and am clean cut with no facial hair. I love the outdoors and enjoy swimming, boating, BBQ's, reading, running, and volleyball. I have the time to get to know someone and am willing to put in the necessary effort as well. My yahoo IM is slalomskier777 if anyone would be interested in chatting there initially. I am an ex MP in the Army.